Tomorrow morning I have the day off work and tonight I went out to a bar. I was with a bunch of my friends at a table, and I saw these 2 girls sitting at a table by themselves.
Now I'm very shy and dont have a ton of self-confidence, but I worked up enough nuts to talk to the girls. I said "hey,... are you 2 waiting for anyone?", "like who?" they say. "your're boyfriends?" "no, (the girl I like) I don't have a boyfriend"
So we started talking, we talked about a bunch of things, and I asked her to dance. We danced for a bit (fast dance). For the first set of slow songs I was just talking with her. For the next twenty minutes or so (I had been talking to her for about 45 minutes, she said she was gonna go take a walk with her friend for a "few minutes". She was gone for roughly 15 minutes when I saw her at the bar, and from what I heard it seemed like 2 guys were trying to hit on her (it was her birthday) and I said hi. I asked if those were the friends she was waiting for and she said that she didnt even know them, was just pretending to know them.
By this time my friends really wanted to leave, so I said that my friends were making me leave and asked if I could get her number. "I don't give out my phone number... You can give me yours though." I agreed. I wrote my name and number down on a sheet of paper with a pen so the number or name isn't gonna be smudged.
"If you call me, thanks" I said. Then I said "I gotta go now, goodbye". She said goodbye to me as well, and we hugged each other.
She said she was gonna be at a certain bar tomorrow night and that I should come too (on my own. She said she was with some other friends). I said I was probably going there anyway and I would probably see her there.
The night has ended like the above...
Is the "I don't give out my phone number..." part an immidiate sign that she doesn't like me? Was it a little pathetic to say "If you call me, thanks"?
This is honestly the first real time I've ever had the confidence to talk to a girl at the bar and it was nice. I'd like to know what the ladies here think?
Should I expect a call? Was I shot down and didn't even notice? I really liked this girl. She was very attractive and she had a great voice and a seemingly good personality.
help...
Now I'm very shy and dont have a ton of self-confidence, but I worked up enough nuts to talk to the girls. I said "hey,... are you 2 waiting for anyone?", "like who?" they say. "your're boyfriends?" "no, (the girl I like) I don't have a boyfriend"
So we started talking, we talked about a bunch of things, and I asked her to dance. We danced for a bit (fast dance). For the first set of slow songs I was just talking with her. For the next twenty minutes or so (I had been talking to her for about 45 minutes, she said she was gonna go take a walk with her friend for a "few minutes". She was gone for roughly 15 minutes when I saw her at the bar, and from what I heard it seemed like 2 guys were trying to hit on her (it was her birthday) and I said hi. I asked if those were the friends she was waiting for and she said that she didnt even know them, was just pretending to know them.
By this time my friends really wanted to leave, so I said that my friends were making me leave and asked if I could get her number. "I don't give out my phone number... You can give me yours though." I agreed. I wrote my name and number down on a sheet of paper with a pen so the number or name isn't gonna be smudged.
"If you call me, thanks" I said. Then I said "I gotta go now, goodbye". She said goodbye to me as well, and we hugged each other.
She said she was gonna be at a certain bar tomorrow night and that I should come too (on my own. She said she was with some other friends). I said I was probably going there anyway and I would probably see her there.
The night has ended like the above...
Is the "I don't give out my phone number..." part an immidiate sign that she doesn't like me? Was it a little pathetic to say "If you call me, thanks"?
This is honestly the first real time I've ever had the confidence to talk to a girl at the bar and it was nice. I'd like to know what the ladies here think?
Should I expect a call? Was I shot down and didn't even notice? I really liked this girl. She was very attractive and she had a great voice and a seemingly good personality.
help...
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