Have you bought the 1GB stick yet? There's really no benefit to 533 memory, so you might as well just get a 1GB stick of 400, then it will match what's in there.
That said, you probably won't notice much of a difference between 1024MB and 1280MB unless you're doing something pretty hardcore. Personally, I'm having a hard time justifying an upgrade from 512MB to 1024MB because I don't want to double the amount of time it takes to hibernate/resume.
fbird: Would mixing memory give you the lower speed of the 400 and the higher latency of 533 at the same time, or do latencies of the 533 improve when it is running at 400?