Originally posted by: amnesiac
Originally posted by: Jeff7181
I don't believe there's more to physical addiction than willpower. Sure if you're a heroine "addict" you'll need heroine to feel normal... but if you wanted to get off it bad enough, you'd get through it. Heroine addicts aren't doomed for life... there's places like rehab to help give them the willpower to kick the habit. Whether they have the willpower not to get back on it after they get out of rehab is up to them... they stay in rehab until they physically aren't dependant on it... it's thier mental dependancy that brings people back to it.
ARE YOU THAT STUPID IN REAL LIFE OR DO YOU JUST PLAY IT ON ATOT?
I think you have set the record for most ignorant statement ever made on this forum.
My brother died from heroin (not "heroine" you moron) last month. I've also lost another half-brother to drugs 13 years ago, and almost lost my father due to alcoholism.
All are strong willed people, my father especially. All the willpower in the world can't cure you from the craving, the insane grasp a substance has on you once you're fully addicted. To think otherwise is plain foolish. Go to an NA or AA meeting. You'll see some very strong people there and even they need a helping hand to get out of their troubles.
Just because someone turns to the bottle or the needle doesn't make them a weak person. Addiction is a
disease, it's
a hereditary disposition, and reaches far deeper into your mind's eye than you could possibly fathom. It's caused by someone making the wrong decision at the wrong time.
As for the mental dependency being all "willpower" I suppose you could say the same about a manic-depressive or a schizophrenic. I know, let's start a new form of therapy where we tell them that they can cure themselves through sheer use of willpower. That's it! You idiot. It's a mental ailment and it's not nearly so easily to overcome as you suggest.
My brother was in and out of rehab, Narcotics Anonymous, and a couple other help groups. He WANTED to quit. He was a very stubborn and strong-willed individual. When he wanted something, he went and got it. Unfortunately, the tendrils of addiction had wrapped themselves so tightly around him that even a doctor's warning after a heart valve replacement surgery -- "Use one more time and you WILL die." -- was not enough to prevent a relapse.
You are correct in that willpower is involved BEFORE the addiction starts. Once you recognize what is happening, which isn't always clear to the victim, it takes an amount of willpower to backpedal and wrench yourself away from addiction before it begins. However, once it has you, it is a very rare occasion that someone can dig themselves out of their own hole. It is almost a given that it requires the help of one or many to restore normality.
Next time, try to keep your flapping lips shut when talking about things you have no experience with. Or better yet, why don't YOU shoot up a couple times and try to leap out of your own grave all by yourself, mister Mega-Willpower.