- Jun 23, 2004
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So as the "manager" (modestly respected would be an overstatement) I've tried every which way to work the system to create an environment where people want to work.
I'm convinced that people simply do not want to work.
Yesterday I had to write up an employee who's convinced he can simply do what he wants, whenever he wants. He decides to take his ex back to court over the weekend & simply calls Monday morning to explain he's not coming in because of it. Next, he comes in late because he took his kids to school and simply calls to say he'll be in at 9. He has health issues and those have interfered in the past too and that's always a sensitive issue 'cuz his defense is....."Hey, I'm sick, I can't help it!".
Of course on the other side of the coin I have the business owner (lives out of state) who looks to me to have things running perfectly all the time (and when they don't, feels obligated to fly in and swing the baseball bat of "his way" with little regard for damage control) and I'm juggling all of this as delicately as possible.
Anyway..................all that to say this.........
Today, when I called him to give him the "state of the biz" address, he accuses me of trying to be everyone's buddy. (true to a point, but I still run a good ship). I took some offense to that and would just as soon reached thru the phone and choke him.
Is it best to simply manage cut & dry, or is there simply every version I learned in college (basically arbitrary bullsh!t from one extreme to the other) about a zillion ways to manage??
I'm convinced that people simply do not want to work.
Yesterday I had to write up an employee who's convinced he can simply do what he wants, whenever he wants. He decides to take his ex back to court over the weekend & simply calls Monday morning to explain he's not coming in because of it. Next, he comes in late because he took his kids to school and simply calls to say he'll be in at 9. He has health issues and those have interfered in the past too and that's always a sensitive issue 'cuz his defense is....."Hey, I'm sick, I can't help it!".
Of course on the other side of the coin I have the business owner (lives out of state) who looks to me to have things running perfectly all the time (and when they don't, feels obligated to fly in and swing the baseball bat of "his way" with little regard for damage control) and I'm juggling all of this as delicately as possible.
Anyway..................all that to say this.........
Today, when I called him to give him the "state of the biz" address, he accuses me of trying to be everyone's buddy. (true to a point, but I still run a good ship). I took some offense to that and would just as soon reached thru the phone and choke him.
Is it best to simply manage cut & dry, or is there simply every version I learned in college (basically arbitrary bullsh!t from one extreme to the other) about a zillion ways to manage??