Making good conversation?

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Make smart jokes raise a lot of questions and always ALWAYS look interessted in her.(make a couple of compliments to just don't look like a brown noser)
 

Aquaman

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It's not the conversation that should worry you (that should come naturally).......... it's the long silent pauses that should worry you........ man I hate those :p

Cheers,
Aquaman
 

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Long silent pauses are not necessarily a bad thing. If you're really comfortable with the person, they can actually be a good thing.

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AngelOfDeath

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The best thing you can do is to not think about how you are going to make a good conversation. Often it just blocks your mind from felling free and all in a sudden you find yourself trying desperatly to keep to conversation going with nothing but stupid small-talk (Seems like it comes from a guy who had tried this before?...well, you are right I did that until I was 18 but then a very good friend of mine taught me how to relaxe). Well, that's the best advise I can give you my friend :)

AoD ;)
 

Isla

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One of the best ways to be a good conversationist is to be a good listener...

Don't worry about what you are going to say next.... listen to what the person is saying, and you will do just fine.

BTW... I know a guy who always stares at my chest when he talks to me. I guess he thinks I don't notice it, but I think it is funny because it is almost like he is willing them to make comment or something! :D
 

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it is almost like he is willing them to make comment or something

More like begging them to leap into his hands.

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allan120

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Well, with women, I usually ask a few normal questions and use her answers as a springboard to more questions. I make sure to meet her gaze when she's speaking, lean forward a little bit, and smile often. Gotta give all the little nonverbal cues. I try to go with the flow since it's really easy for me to fall into a stammering, stuttering mess once I get self conscious. :)

Funny thing you asked since I spent a few hours the other night talking to probably the most incredible female human being I've ever met.
 

I am reminded of a certain line in the movie "American Pie." I don't think it worked, though.;)
 

mztykal

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How's this:

Walk up to her and begin kissing her. If she doesn't push away she likes you plus there's no need for conversation. If not, you better run and hope she doesn't press charges against you. :)

-MzTyKaL
 

kami

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Anything less than a wad of 50s will do you no good, remember.

"If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning. "
- Aristotle Onassis
 

pen^2

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hehe i am horrible myself yet i think i know all those 'tricks' mentioned by others... i'd tell ya having confidence in yourself is da key! try not to think the person whom you are talkin to is great in any way... once you are concerned with about leaving good impressions on her, you start doin what AoD speaks of...
 

AndrewR

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The key to conversing with anyone is establishing common interests. If you do not have anything in common to relate to, the conversation ends up being a speech as you explain something within your expertise (or vice versa). Now, there are plenty of things that just about everyone was in common: weather, traffic, work, etc., though those just happen to be boring subjects. Cue off of her responses to initial questions and try to lay the groundwork for a conversation she might actually find interesting. Like Isla says, be a good listener, and women think you're interested (well, ok I said the second part!).

Yes, and breasts don't talk back. What a different world this would be if they did!