Love....

[Doomer]

Is it possible after puberty?

 

[shadow]

of course

 

[Robert]

There are different kinds of love. The love you can have for your mommy, a puppy, a teddy bear, and the opposite sex.

 

[Locutus of Board]

I had 90% of self love right around that time.

Oops..... :|:|:|:|:|:|

 

[Hyper99]

yes you must love yourself first before you can love anyone else
if you think you are beatiful then you shouldn't have any problem making love.
love mean to care for someone it also mean sex as well
an impotent person is considered unable to love someone. hehe
and so divorces happen because one cannot please the other well enought.

 

[chipbgt]

<< an impotent person is considered unable to love someone. hehe and so divorces happen because one cannot please the other well enought. >>



what are you an idiot?

 

[Hyper99]

majority of us feel the need to be love and to love someone after puberty you just blossom like a flower.
are we horny during this time? pretty much so.

 

[Hyper99]

chipbgt why is it that you never post anything constructive but instead alway judging someone by what they post?!
stick to the topic plz...
it really get crazy when you do this.

 

[Hyper99]

What are you? magnetized to hyper99?
Sorry I am not gay, nor bisexual... I am heterosexual.

 

[chipbgt]

Lets take a look at what you said. an impotent person cannot feel/express love.

DO you want me to say it again? why do you write such things?


and your doing it again. instead of posting three seperate times just post once and edit it if no one else has responded.

 

[geno]

forget what I said...

 

[Athanasius]

To answer the original question, apart from the specific grace of God, pure love is not possible after puberty. It is probably not possible before puberty either, but hormones really mess it up At best we have mixed motives.

The highest form of love is &quot;focused, persevering, altruistic benevolence.&quot; Affection, Passion, Friendship, and Compassion are all &quot;messengers&quot; or &quot;angels&quot; of such love. If they remain truly focused and persevering in altruistic benevolence, they become powerful messengers of True Love. If they become wrapped around self-will and self-indulgence, they become fierce demons. Affection becomes Abuse. Passion becomes Lust. Friendship becomes Cliquishness. Compassion becomes Co-Dependent Enabling.

The stronger the raw desire/angel for affection, passion, friendship, or compassion, the fiercer the demon it becomes if it falls away from True Love/ Focused Persevering Altruistic Benevolence.

&quot;Lucifer&quot; was perhaps the highest Messenger/Angel. He became the fiercest demon when he walked away from True Love and chose Self-Will.

 

[Yeeny]

I think love can happen after puberty, but most often it is just the old hormones kicking into action.

What are you? magnetized to hyper99?

Why does that statement make me think of Mango from SNL? No a toucha the Mango!

 

[MrsSkywalker]

Of course you can love after puberty. In fact, I think that it isn't until after puberty that you are mature enough to experience real love. Before and during puberty, though, it is a hell of a lot easier to love unconditionally But, that's what makes grown-up life interesting; the challenges.

Hyper, I have to agree with chipbgt on this one. Of course an impotent person can love and also be loved. It is only a selfish, self centered, shallow person who believes love has to mean sex. MANY couples managed to stay in love just fine before viagra. Sex is a beautiful experience, but it is not necessary to love.

Besides, impotent people can still participate in many sexual and stimulating acts without having to have intercourse.

 

[Samster]

n/t