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Love is a crazy thing

M

Monkey muppet

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I have mentioned this in passing before and I don't feel this is the place to bore all of you with the full story - so here goes the cut down version.

When I started my new job around a year ago I noticed a smoking hot girl who I can positivly state that I'm very sexualy attracted too.

It started off as friends, then friendly flirting, then serious flirting (if you more to the story then there are some of my thread entitled "email flirting etiquette" & "I can't handle this")

This girl is:

- 9 year older than me
- Married
- Has two adopted kids
- Works in the same company

Normally my sence of morality would say no, however emotionaly it's yes, yes, yes.

I'm not looknig for flames or advice - I'm am wondering if anyone has follwed heart instead of head and weather it worked out or not
 
I would say STFU and don't wreck their lives. If she wants to let her get a divorce first, let that happen. But don't go in and fvck over the lives of the kids if both spouses don't love eachother anymore. Apparantly they atleast are still together for the sake of their kids (or i could be assuming things and the divorce papers have been on their minds for a long time).


Either way, don't do sh|t while they are married, and what you alreayd did was bad. I would stop right now and informing her carefully about this. Besides, if you do go through it what in the words are the kids going to think later on? That their mom cheated on their father to be with another guy?

Let a DIVORCE happen before you do anything. Love is strong obvoiusly and I know the feeling, but if you take it at a step at a time yo ucan control it, and ralize that if you reallly love her and she loves you, then you can wait that extra year while things get worked out between her and her husband (regardless of whether or not it results in a divorce, or they decide to make one seiorus last dtich effort to remain husband and wife)
 
i don't get it, so you're saying, if you hit it, you're following your heart? are you kidding me? More like following your dick. if your heart tells you it's ok to bang a married woman with a family, then you need to get your heart checked.
 
No, the heart isn't stronger than the head; the head is WEAK. Find a gal without so much baggage.
 
If she wants a fling, I say go for it but do not, DO NOT get emotionally attached to this broad, nothing good will come of it.
 
Don't go for it. Man, I hate it when guys go after a chick who has a boyfriend, but a woman who is married?!? That shows weak moral structuring. Not only is she married, she has two kids also. And they're adopted. No sense in giving them further issues to deal with when you break another one of their families apart. There are plenty of chicks out there who you could be sexually attracted to, why pick the one with a lot to lose?
 
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