Well I'm confused about what hitting th audyssey button is going to do.
Oh...
"Audyssey EQ and Audyssey Equalized
These are preset versions of MultEQ technology. They are designed for systems that ship with their own speakers, such as 2.1 systems, Home Theater-in-a-Box (HTiB) systems, Table Radios or Televisions. We work directly with the manufacturers to precisely measure the system's performance at our labs to simulate a typical room environment. Audyssey EQ removes much of the distortion caused by speaker enclosures and the typical room environment producing greatly improved sound compared to similar products without correction. Audyssey Equalized includes additional technologies such as Dynamic EQ and BassXT."
Most of the Audyssey units will calibrate your system with a microphone to customize settings to your environments. Your receiver just has a preset Audyssey calibration that they think will work well in most rooms.
In this case, I'd recommend doing the distance and level calibration from the seat where you usually listen. It would be better with an SPL meter, but doing it by ear should be better than nothing. You can certainly get the distance settings right.
With trim level settings, you can see how arbitrary the volume level setting is. For example, if you set the trim level settings to be +5 for all your speakers, then the overall volume of the system at 55 would be the same as it was before at 60.
What you should do is try to get all the speakers at the same volume. You'll get pink noise from the receiver and your job will be to adjust each speaker so it sounds like the same volume. With an SPL meter, you can do this more precisely, but just doing it by ear should be better than nothing.
After you get the distance and trim levels right, you can play with the Audyssey equalizer and see if you like it better with or without.