long-term relationships and good sex are an impossible combination

[iwearnosox]

Duh.

Cheating, the only way to go. :beer:

 

[Nocturnal]

"Sign me in!"

Paste the article here.

 

[BCYL]

Link requires login...

 

[Electric Amish]

My wife and I would not agree with that.

 

[aircooled]

Originally posted by: Sifl
Duh.

Cheating, the only way to go. :beer:

I'm trying! Just got to find some willing hot chicks!

 

[Nocturnal]

Neither would my gf and I.

 

[iwearnosox]

Crap, referrer stuff. 1sec.

 

[fs5]

Germany - A German psychologist has concluded long-term relationships and good sex are "an impossible combination".

Dr Michael Mary says following years of research as a sex therapist in Berlin he has found trying to continue having satisfying sex in an exclusive relationship is futile.

His recipe for getting boring love life going again is to cheat on your partner.

He said: "It is impossible to get everything together. To have trust and harmony and at the same time the level of passion and desire one experiences on the first day simply doesn't exist."

Dr Mary, who has recently published a book called Five Lies Concerning Love, also warned that putting a lot of effort into working towards creating a fulfilled sex life in long-term relationships was for nothing.

He stated: "It is better to accept living with the discrepancy between sexual desire and long-term love." - Ananova.com

 

[Geekbabe]

I don't agree

 

[JonnyBlaze]

me and my girl of 13 years would disagree also. well, at least i would!

JB

 

[aircooled]

Originally posted by: Sifl
Crap, referrer stuff. 1sec.

nope. I still am asked for a login....

 

[fs5]

Originally posted by: Sifl
Crap, referrer stuff. 1sec.

nope, still the same
use this

 

[iwearnosox]

It's fixed, trust me.

 

[KGB1]

I don't agree, there are certain(which are many) people whose conscious actions take precident over their instinctive nature.

 

[fredtam]

Originally posted by: Geekbabe
I don't agree

 

[Electric Amish]

Well, what do you expect from a psychologist...

 

[Vic]

Bullsh!t.

 

[opticalmace]

Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Well, what do you expect from a psychologist...

Especially someone named Michael Mary.
You just know there's some kind of gender conflict.

 

[ElFenix]

sounds like a german thing to me

 

[ivol07]

Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Well, what do you expect from a psychologist...

Cheat on your spouse and then come see me when you want to work it out!

I disagree by the way.

 

[aircooled]

New sex is always exciting, but you can still have good sex at home......

 

[DaveSimmons]

Dr Michael Mary says following years of research as a sex therapist in Berlin he has found trying to continue having satisfying sex in an exclusive relationship is futile

Well that's irrefutable evidence -- since it's possibly true in the opinion of one therapist treating Germans with sex problems it must be true for everyone!

 

[KGB1]

Originally posted by: Electric Amish
Well, what do you expect from a psychologist...

It's a sad state of affairs with leading sociologists and psychologists whom rather "test" their hypothesis on methodology used by natural scientists. There finding are often misconstrued and unless they have done deeply involved interviews with people; their findings are all a small sample of what the greater people at large behave. One can never to straw polls and simple questionare's to find out the real reason people do what they do

(Which they deconstruct later on and point out fundamentaly that the social/psychological sciences are inherant to fail.... [so what is there reason of being?])

Control.