Long night of getting rid of stuff - bitching inside warning -

TallBill

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I've been going through boxes and boxes of stuff that I have in storage, and i put together a nice amount of stuff to bring to a local charity place. I even took a decent sized chunk out of the clothes that I own. I tossed a whole lot of memories tonight, which is kinda weird, but oh well. Makes me feel very alone I guess, knowing all the people that are not a part of my life anymore, especially knowing that nobody here really gives a crap, or anyone for that matter.

I also stumbled onto a picture of my ex-gf who broke up with me because of religious beliefs after a solid year of dating. She was the first love of my life, and I loved her WAY more then my current gf, but religion tore us down. Makes me question my current relationship. Is there better out there? Anyways, nobody here cares, or should care, so flame on. Just felt like typing something. Just peace of mind.
 

Ness

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Originally posted by: hjo3
Okay, you must not have been Googling very hard, so I'll just post the links here for your convenience:
blogger
xanga
livejournal

ass.


Were you getting rid of stuff because you have space concerns or because you realized you don't need half this crap?
 

TallBill

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Well I should be moving out soon, going active duty Army. Currently waiting for officers to finish up some paperwork so that I can leave. Also, my life is always a mess.

As for a blogger.. hah.. what would be the point? so that my girlfriend could read it every day? Nobody else would. I wouldnt want them to.
 

rh71

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Originally posted by: TallBill
I also stumbled onto a picture of my ex-gf who broke up with me because of religious beliefs after a solid year of dating. She was the first love of my life, and I loved her WAY more then my current gf, but religion tore us down. Makes me question my current relationship. Is there better out there? Anyways, nobody here cares, or should care, so flame on. Just felt like typing something. Just peace of mind.
Those of us who are married or are marrying their first gf know how this feels. You'll always wonder, but it's not enough to break down what you already have because you don't want to give them up. It's not necessarily a good position to be in since we only have one life to live and don't fully experience what's available, but again... if you've got someone/something you really care about and don't want to leave, it would take a hell of a lot to look elsewhere. Nobody can really decide for you if you want to look for better...
 

BigToque

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also stumbled onto a picture of my ex-gf who broke up with me because of religious beliefs after a solid year of dating. She was the first love of my life, and I loved her WAY more then my current gf...

Why are you even with your current GF? If you're not totally happy with her, you're just stringing her along. If this ever became marriage, it would be another divorce statistic.
 

TallBill

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Originally posted by: Stefan
also stumbled onto a picture of my ex-gf who broke up with me because of religious beliefs after a solid year of dating. She was the first love of my life, and I loved her WAY more then my current gf...

Why are you even with your current GF? If you're not totally happy with her, you're just stringing her along. If this ever became marriage, it would be another divorce statistic.

Because shes more of a gf then you have.
 

fs5

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Originally posted by: TallBill
Originally posted by: Stefan
also stumbled onto a picture of my ex-gf who broke up with me because of religious beliefs after a solid year of dating. She was the first love of my life, and I loved her WAY more then my current gf...

Why are you even with your current GF? If you're not totally happy with her, you're just stringing her along. If this ever became marriage, it would be another divorce statistic.

Because shes more of a gf then you have.

he's just trying to save you grief, I broke up with my ex of 4 years after I realized it wasn't going to end up in marriage. I was happier in the end.
 

TallBill

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Heh, yeah I realize his point. This really isnt a girl thread tho.. just bitching and whining :p