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[Aimster]

My girlfriend/fiance has been acting shady for the last 2-weeks. Last night we were on the phone and someone calls her and she switches back to me. She acts like she is very tired and wants to go to sleep. Now I am thinking she has been doing this for the last 2-weeks and right after someone calls her she acts like she is sleepy. So:

Her: "I'm tired can I go to sleep"
Me: "ok g-night"
Click
The phone doesn't hang up and it sounds as if she switched back to the other line :Q

I stay on for 45minutes and she flashes over and I told her she's been caught. I went off on her and I called her so many names in the book. At the end I finally told her that I was going to forget she existed and I would be mature about it and end it. I am not up for competition. I come first and there is no second.

She's been talking to her ex. I laughed and I kept laughing.

She's keeps crying and saying she is sorry. I don't care and I am being a big Jerk.

Players mistake. If you want to be a good player you need to be much more clever than that.

I'm in shock right now. Reality hasn't kicked in. Our relationship was great. This is not my first relationship. First relationship oh man I was crying like a little girl. All you guys who have been hurt and cry about it well I've been there. Now I'm not shedding any tears. It takes a few good beatings to make one into a man. Just hang in there. Life is great and no woman can ever ruin that for us.

 

[hevnsnt]

ouch.. sorry homeboy.. That hurts

 

[Feldenak]

Be careful....she might get some shady characters to vandalize your car(s).

 

[Crusty]

I'm calling shens.

 

[Kalvin00]

Originally posted by: Feldenak
Be careful....she might get some shady characters to vandalize your car(s).

Yep, they might slash his tires and take his rims.

 

[moshquerade]

so she was talking to her ex on the phone? that means she is cheating on you?

 

[olds]

Sorry. We'll be more careful on the phone next time.
And I can assure you, there will be a next time.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am not up for competition. I come first and there is no second.

So find yourself a stalker. Competition is a part of life, and what you said there basically amounts to "I'm a spineless little bitch who will throw a fit if my woman dares to talk to another guy."

- M4H

 

[Aimster]

Originally posted by: moshquerade
so she was talking to her ex on the phone? that means she is cheating on you?

In my book. I can get girls I have no reason to be with a liar. I want a complete honest relationship. She could have been talking to her ex and I wouldn't have made a big deal, but I would have been upset. To lie like she was tired and wanted to go to sleep so she could talk to him over me.
NO. I am sure there is more happening. I don't care to know.

 

[Aimster]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am not up for competition. I come first and there is no second.

So find yourself a stalker. Competition is a part of life, and what you said there basically amounts to "I'm a spineless little bitch who will throw a fit if my woman dares to talk to another guy."

- M4H

She said she doesn't know which one of us she wants that is why she is talking to him.

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Originally posted by: Feldenak
Be careful....she might get some shady characters to vandalize your car(s).

Better get a 1337 security device

 

[RbSX]

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: moshquerade
so she was talking to her ex on the phone? that means she is cheating on you?

In my book. I can get girls I have no reason to be with a liar. I want a complete honest relationship. She could have been talking to her ex and I wouldn't have made a big deal, but I would have been upset. To lie like she was tired and wanted to go to sleep so she could talk to him over me.
NO. I am sure there is more happening. I don't care to know.

Oh fvcking get over it. She didn't CHEAT on you, atleast not that you can confirm. It's an unfortunate reality of things that she talks to her ex, and yes it's unfortunate that she lied to you. But if you like her you will deal with it.

On top of that, competition is a way of life.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am not up for competition. I come first and there is no second.

So find yourself a stalker. Competition is a part of life, and what you said there basically amounts to "I'm a spineless little bitch who will throw a fit if my woman dares to talk to another guy."

- M4H

She said she doesn't know which one of us she wants that is why she is talking to him.

Congratulations, you just eliminated yourself from the running. GG.

- M4H

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Oh, and which is she, your girlfriend or your fiancée?

- M4H

 

[Pepsi90919]

My girlfriend/fiance

fiance is male

I can get girls I have no reason to be with a liar.

dunno how you live with yourself then.

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: RyanSengara

Originally posted by: Aimster

Originally posted by: moshquerade
so she was talking to her ex on the phone? that means she is cheating on you?

In my book. I can get girls I have no reason to be with a liar. I want a complete honest relationship. She could have been talking to her ex and I wouldn't have made a big deal, but I would have been upset. To lie like she was tired and wanted to go to sleep so she could talk to him over me.
NO. I am sure there is more happening. I don't care to know.

Oh fvcking get over it. She didn't CHEAT on you, atleast not that you can confirm. It's an unfortunate reality of things that she talks to her ex, and yes it's unfortunate that she lied to you. But if you like her you will deal with it.

On top of that, competition is a way of life.

yeh, i think you blew it OP.

 

[sniperruff]

so she was talking to her ex and you were being a jerk.

now put yourself in her position. lets say your ex called and she has some really exciting stuff to tell you about her day.

so obviously you want to chat with your ex... uh-oh your girl is on the line, waiting!!!

i'd do the same thing. unless you are mature enough and getting ready to get married, you won't tell your current girl that you want to talk to your ex.

at least that's what i think. do whatever you like and don't ask for serious advice on ATOT.

now i'd go apologize to her ifi i were you.

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: sniperruff
so she was talking to her ex and you were being a jerk.

now put yourself in her position. lets say your ex called and she has some really exciting stuff to tell you about her day.

so obviously you want to chat with your ex... uh-oh your girl is on the line, waiting!!!

i'd do the same thing. unless you are mature enough and getting ready to get married, you won't tell your current girl that you want to talk to your ex.

at least that's what i think. do whatever you like and don't ask for serious advice on ATOT.

now i'd go apologize to her ifi i were you.

She's not going to answer her phone in the middle of getting fvcked silly by her ex.

- M4H

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: sniperruff
so she was talking to her ex and you were being a jerk.

now put yourself in her position. lets say your ex called and she has some really exciting stuff to tell you about her day.

so obviously you want to chat with your ex... uh-oh your girl is on the line, waiting!!!

i'd do the same thing. unless you are mature enough and getting ready to get married, you won't tell your current girl that you want to talk to your ex.

at least that's what i think. do whatever you like and don't ask for serious advice on ATOT.

now i'd go apologize to her ifi i were you.

She's not going to answer her phone in the middle of getting fvcked silly by her ex.

- M4H

so you are saying she's not Paris Hilton?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: sniperruff
so she was talking to her ex and you were being a jerk.

now put yourself in her position. lets say your ex called and she has some really exciting stuff to tell you about her day.

so obviously you want to chat with your ex... uh-oh your girl is on the line, waiting!!!

i'd do the same thing. unless you are mature enough and getting ready to get married, you won't tell your current girl that you want to talk to your ex.

at least that's what i think. do whatever you like and don't ask for serious advice on ATOT.

now i'd go apologize to her ifi i were you.

She's not going to answer her phone in the middle of getting fvcked silly by her ex.

- M4H

so you are saying she not Paris Hilton?

ROFL

- M4H

 

[Nebor]

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: sniperruff
so she was talking to her ex and you were being a jerk.

now put yourself in her position. lets say your ex called and she has some really exciting stuff to tell you about her day.

so obviously you want to chat with your ex... uh-oh your girl is on the line, waiting!!!

i'd do the same thing. unless you are mature enough and getting ready to get married, you won't tell your current girl that you want to talk to your ex.

at least that's what i think. do whatever you like and don't ask for serious advice on ATOT.

now i'd go apologize to her ifi i were you.

She's not going to answer her phone in the middle of getting fvcked silly by her ex.

- M4H

so you are saying she's not Paris Hilton?

What are the odds of an ATOTer dating a hot supermodel?

 

[MercenaryForHire]

Originally posted by: Nebor

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: sniperruff
so she was talking to her ex and you were being a jerk.

now put yourself in her position. lets say your ex called and she has some really exciting stuff to tell you about her day.

so obviously you want to chat with your ex... uh-oh your girl is on the line, waiting!!!

i'd do the same thing. unless you are mature enough and getting ready to get married, you won't tell your current girl that you want to talk to your ex.

at least that's what i think. do whatever you like and don't ask for serious advice on ATOT.

now i'd go apologize to her ifi i were you.

She's not going to answer her phone in the middle of getting fvcked silly by her ex.

- M4H

so you are saying she's not Paris Hilton?

What are the odds of an ATOTer dating a coke whore?

Pretty high if they just got their student aid cheque.

- M4H

 

[moshquerade]

Originally posted by: Nebor

Originally posted by: moshquerade

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire

Originally posted by: sniperruff
so she was talking to her ex and you were being a jerk.

now put yourself in her position. lets say your ex called and she has some really exciting stuff to tell you about her day.

so obviously you want to chat with your ex... uh-oh your girl is on the line, waiting!!!

i'd do the same thing. unless you are mature enough and getting ready to get married, you won't tell your current girl that you want to talk to your ex.

at least that's what i think. do whatever you like and don't ask for serious advice on ATOT.

now i'd go apologize to her ifi i were you.

She's not going to answer her phone in the middle of getting fvcked silly by her ex.

- M4H

so you are saying she's not Paris Hilton?

What are the odds of an ATOTer dating a hot supermodel?

that's a tough question

gonna go with zero to none

 

[clamum]

Bah, screw it. If she's not sure she wants to be with you over her ex, let him have her.

 

[TheLonelyPhoenix]

Yeah, you just shot yourself in the foot, pal. Not saying you shouldn't be perturbed by the fact she's jerking you around trying to decide between you and her ex, but by your handling of it. Coming off as controlling and overbearing gets you nowhere.