Ok here is the setup, this morning my nephew comes in the driveway with a flat tire....
We pull the van in my garage and I help him change it.....
He leaves and when I go in the house my significant other (we are not married) completely goes off on me, In front of our 5 year old nonetheless, and I tried my best to take it like a man but the total disrespect she gave me made me loose it......She is beyond hateful when she gets mad at me and this isn't the first time she has done this the last 6 years either.....To avoid a situation I have to let it go in one ear and out the other......
I basically lost all metal thought control and told her he is family and if he needs something fixed on his car I will fix it.....And if she doesn't like it then GTF out.....And she did.....To give you an idea of the hypocrisy he was just over last week and fixed shingles that had blown off my roof, for NOTHING.......
He has had some troubles with drugs and the like in the past but he is trying to get cleaned up and get his life on track.........She holds this against him and I hear it every time he comes around."you need to be a man and throw his ass off the property" BLA BLA BLA......To give you an idea of the hypocrisy he was just over last week and fixed shingles that had blown off my roof, for NOTHING.......But I cant fix the tire on his van lol.....
So, basically I have come to the conclusion that I either put up with this the rest of my life, or I take a stand and send her down the road.....But we have a 5 year old, and she has a 13 year from a previous marriage who will pay dearly for this.....And to be honest sometimes I think that's why we both put up with each other the way we do......For the kids.....
So basically the question is what would you do? Everyone says about "child support" this and look how much its going to cost you but man, what good does that do you if you drop over dead of a heart attack????
We pull the van in my garage and I help him change it.....
He leaves and when I go in the house my significant other (we are not married) completely goes off on me, In front of our 5 year old nonetheless, and I tried my best to take it like a man but the total disrespect she gave me made me loose it......She is beyond hateful when she gets mad at me and this isn't the first time she has done this the last 6 years either.....To avoid a situation I have to let it go in one ear and out the other......
I basically lost all metal thought control and told her he is family and if he needs something fixed on his car I will fix it.....And if she doesn't like it then GTF out.....And she did.....To give you an idea of the hypocrisy he was just over last week and fixed shingles that had blown off my roof, for NOTHING.......
He has had some troubles with drugs and the like in the past but he is trying to get cleaned up and get his life on track.........She holds this against him and I hear it every time he comes around."you need to be a man and throw his ass off the property" BLA BLA BLA......To give you an idea of the hypocrisy he was just over last week and fixed shingles that had blown off my roof, for NOTHING.......But I cant fix the tire on his van lol.....
So, basically I have come to the conclusion that I either put up with this the rest of my life, or I take a stand and send her down the road.....But we have a 5 year old, and she has a 13 year from a previous marriage who will pay dearly for this.....And to be honest sometimes I think that's why we both put up with each other the way we do......For the kids.....
So basically the question is what would you do? Everyone says about "child support" this and look how much its going to cost you but man, what good does that do you if you drop over dead of a heart attack????
