I've been hit with a dilemma recently and I honestly have no idea what to do:
I grew up in Southeast Texas, where the towns are small, the landscape is flat, the mentality is backwards, and the humidity is terrible. All of my family and friends are there but I have yet to move back after moving away 7-years ago to Austin. Austin is an up-and-coming city with a great tech. industry, lots of opportunity, great landscape/climate, etc. but I have no family within a 5-hour drive and most of my friends left after college. I am still here with my wife, pets and a job that I really like. That's really it, though. The cost of living in Austin has increased to the point where I can't afford to do all that much extra beyond go to work and go home.
Now, my wife is on the "baby" kick and has just about talked me into it. The problem is that if we have a baby, I don't know if we can afford to keep our house, etc. She could keep working but we'd have to pay a ton in childcare, or she could quit working and we'd have to survive on my income somehow. There would be no grandparents around to watch the kids now and then or any of that as we have no family anywhere near here (her family is all in Florida). The upside is that I am pretty much a shoe-in for a higher job here at work that will pay about 10k more.
So, against all my better judgment, I saw a job posting back home (Beaumont) that is in my field (GIS) and sent in an application. The pay rate is actually about 10k more than I'm making here and the cost of living is dirt-cheap there. There would be the added benefit of having most of my family and friends in the same town and my kids could grow up knowing them. I would be able to support a family easily on that income in that area.
Well, I got a call from the hiring manager today and he is very excited about my resume. He likes the experience I have and he likes that I'm from the area and know it well. He described the job and it truly sounds awesome. I'd pretty much be free to start and manage my own projects as they are just now implementing a GIS in their organization. GIS jobs are so far and few between in that area that I can't believe there is something like this open there. He said that I am pretty much what he is looking for if I am still interested.
Now I'm faced with the decision and I don't know what I should do. Stay here in the city I love that is expensive and where I have no family/friends around, or move back home to a city and don't really like but where life is slower and cheaper and I have all the people I grew up with.
What is more important? The biggest fear of mine is moving back home and regretting the hell out of it. Then again, my life is much different and I have other priorities than I did when I left home in the first place.
I grew up in Southeast Texas, where the towns are small, the landscape is flat, the mentality is backwards, and the humidity is terrible. All of my family and friends are there but I have yet to move back after moving away 7-years ago to Austin. Austin is an up-and-coming city with a great tech. industry, lots of opportunity, great landscape/climate, etc. but I have no family within a 5-hour drive and most of my friends left after college. I am still here with my wife, pets and a job that I really like. That's really it, though. The cost of living in Austin has increased to the point where I can't afford to do all that much extra beyond go to work and go home.
Now, my wife is on the "baby" kick and has just about talked me into it. The problem is that if we have a baby, I don't know if we can afford to keep our house, etc. She could keep working but we'd have to pay a ton in childcare, or she could quit working and we'd have to survive on my income somehow. There would be no grandparents around to watch the kids now and then or any of that as we have no family anywhere near here (her family is all in Florida). The upside is that I am pretty much a shoe-in for a higher job here at work that will pay about 10k more.
So, against all my better judgment, I saw a job posting back home (Beaumont) that is in my field (GIS) and sent in an application. The pay rate is actually about 10k more than I'm making here and the cost of living is dirt-cheap there. There would be the added benefit of having most of my family and friends in the same town and my kids could grow up knowing them. I would be able to support a family easily on that income in that area.
Well, I got a call from the hiring manager today and he is very excited about my resume. He likes the experience I have and he likes that I'm from the area and know it well. He described the job and it truly sounds awesome. I'd pretty much be free to start and manage my own projects as they are just now implementing a GIS in their organization. GIS jobs are so far and few between in that area that I can't believe there is something like this open there. He said that I am pretty much what he is looking for if I am still interested.
Now I'm faced with the decision and I don't know what I should do. Stay here in the city I love that is expensive and where I have no family/friends around, or move back home to a city and don't really like but where life is slower and cheaper and I have all the people I grew up with.
What is more important? The biggest fear of mine is moving back home and regretting the hell out of it. Then again, my life is much different and I have other priorities than I did when I left home in the first place.