Make sure you're getting low-ESR caps. And make sure that you've got physical clearance for the replacements.
I think the way to do it for motherboard cap replacement is:
- Get the same microfarad rating.
- Voltage rating on the new caps must be equal to or greater than that of the bad caps.
If you've not done much soldering before, maybe look into getting something like
this.
I've also found that solder on commercial products seems to have a slightly higher melting point than the 60/40 tin-lead stuff I'm accustomed to working with.
For desoldering wick, I like Radio Shack's desoldering braid. I've tried a number of other brands, and it's the best I've come across.