Why can't gays accept that people can have different opinions from them concerning homesexuality?
Nobody wants to be told they are bad/awful because they are different.
Picking on a minority is being intolerant.
A minority saying that they want to be equal is not intolerant.
Having an opinion that minorities are immoral, or are lesser, or not "real" people is an example of a wrong opinion. You may not like to hear that your opinion is wrong, but, that does not change the fact that your opinion is invalid.
If my religious beliefs does not include my agreeing with gay marriage why is my opinion any less real than a person whose opinion is that gay marriage is great?
If your religious belief is that you should not marry a gay person, then do not marry a gay person. You have 100% right to your religion.
That being said, you do not have the right to opress others who do not share the same belief as you. Also, your religious belief is wrong. Sorry, just wanted to let you know in case you did not know.
I do not believe there is a right or wrong opinion, there are just opinions.
This is another place where you are factually wrong. I can make up bullshit and claim it is opinion, but, it would still just be bullshit.
Why can't gays respect my opinions and religious beliefs?
Gays generally do respect other peoples opinions and religious beliefs. I was at a bar and they were playing metal, but then somebody put some weird madonna music in, and I critisized it, the gay guy who put it on made a joke, but we got along just fine even though my opinion is that black metal is awesome and madonna music kinda sucks. Now, if your "opinion" is "gay people should have less rights, maybe they should be stoned?" People wont respect that because it is blatantly discriminatory and absolutely evil and horrible.
Many believe that gays have the wrong opinion and they are the ones that need to be tolerant.
Gays are very tolerant, I have said this many many times. I have never been beat up or murdered or told that I was less than human for prefering to date women rather than men.
Why force someone who does not approve of gay marriage, to work for you when there are other people who will do the same work and approve of gay marriage?
So, if a gay couple were in a car crash, and they had a straight doctor at the scene, the doctor should have the right to not treat those people because they are gay married?
My problem is the whole "approve of" line.
Gay people do not need your approval, the just want to exercise their right to marriage. Your approval is irreverent, it is not a part of the equation. Intolerance 'not approving' of them.
Not tolerating your intolerance yes, you could spin it for the sake of your propaganda of virulent hatred to claim that people who wont put up with petty bullshit are the intolerant ones, but, I could put polish a turd just as well.