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[purepolly]

It appears it can be payback time. Yesterday the ex, rear ended my vehicle while turning around in my driveway. (The driveway can hold 6+ cars easy and has a turnaround area, so god knows how the fat cow managed to pulled that maneuver off). Now there are some heavy duty scratches in the bumper. Not a really a big deal since I'm not a car focused person.

But, it dawned on me that this is the first time in almost 20 years that he will actually have to pay for some of the damage he has done. He used to get off on destroying stuff of mine in a passive aggressive way, never mind his multiple affairs. I've heard that he has had about an accident a year for the last 4 years or so.

So the question is: do I let it go, have him pay for the damage or do I inform the insurance company and file a claim. What would you do?

 

[sygyzy]

File the claim so his insurance is screwed.

 

[Sundog]

File a report and make a claim on his insurance. It'll screw him for 7 years.

 

[Yax]

Call the cops to get a report or get his admission of wrong doing and go file a report down at the station.

Then you can decide what you're going to do from there. Otherwise, it won't matter what you decide because he can claim it wasn't his fault. No police report, no guilt slip.

 

[Xionide]

Sounds like he raped you to me. <whistles>

 

[Geekbabe]

Hmmmm... I think I'd speak to him 1st and base my action on his response.

 

[OrByte]

I dont know why but I just chuckled out loud when you made reference to your boyfriend as a fat cow...

good times.

anyway take the high road with this one, just move on with your life....sooner you get laid the better I say!

 

[purepolly]

There is no problem proving he did it - the kids where there when he did it. The youngest keeps saying to take him to the cleaners.

Yep - the ex is a real prize.

 

[Geekbabe]

When the STD clinic calls,you could always just forget to give him the message

my roomate's husband left the end of Dec,lol,the clinic has called here twice by mistake,we refer to him now as "Lord Chlamydia"

 

[purepolly]

I have already moved on. Did that 3 beautiful years ago. That is why this is so funny to me now. It was tough having to deal with perennial crap like this when I was married to him. Now I don't have too - and I can just sit back and continue to enjoy the show.

 

[purepolly]

"Lord Chlamydia" - that's awesome!

My ex is king of the anti-depressants. He still hasn't learned that medication isn't effective for a crappy character.

 

[sygyzy]

You've moved on but he still dominates your life. He is still in your thoughts and now he is in your life some more because you'll have to fix your car and deal with him to get it done.

 

[CaseTragedy]

1) File a claim.
2) Post your pic on ATOT.

 

[Geekbabe]

Originally posted by: purepolly
"Lord Chlamydia" - that's awesome!

My ex is king of the anti-depressants. He still hasn't learned that medication isn't effective for a crappy character.

That's what we call him on a good day lol.He is such an awful person mere words cannot describe how horrible the things he says and does are.

 

[purepolly]

Originally posted by: sygyzy
You've moved on but he still dominates your life. He is still in your thoughts and now he is in your life some more because you'll have to fix your car and deal with him to get it done.

Uh - no. All I have to do is call the insurance company, get some quotes, get the work done and let the insurance company deal with him.

Life is good because I don't have to deal with him.