Not being a Christian; wouldn't this discount prayer?
Dear God, please help aunt Betty with her diabetes and cousin Jim with his search for a job and so on and so on.
Are you not specifically dictating the actions of God to intercede in your life? If God cannot appear and do a miracle before the world to disavow all non believers, then why should he answer your prayers? Most all religions have prayer, but is this for God's sake or the person praying? You certainly cannot say that every prayer you prayed was resolved by God. Nobody can, so why pray?
Short answer; no.
Prayer is ultimately an act of faith. I don't necessarily pray because I want something. I pray because I believe in a God who has my best interest at heart. One who understands me, understands my needs, and knows how to knit me back together when I feel broken. When I pray to God and say, "Lord, my car is broken down. I don't know where I'm going to get the money to fix it, but I trust that you will see me through this," it's a submission to God that I can trust that He is going to take care of everything. After all, I pray and trust in a God who
owns everything and lacks nothing. In human terms, God's physical wealth is unfathomable.
And, true to His word, he answers our prayers, but where individuals become confused is how he does so. Sometimes prayer is answered with, "Not yet," or, "My grace is sufficient." Sometimes God purposefully doesn't provide you with what you're asking for because if you're willing to be patient, he has better later on down the road. Or maybe God sees unnecessary ruin or hardship in a house you really want, so he closes that door on purpose. Have you ever intervened in the decisions your child made? Maybe you cut off a friendship your daughter had with a boy because you saw it would only lead to serious trouble, only in this case, we're the daughter (err, child). We're just not always going to know God's reasoning as to why he does things.
But hey, wanna hear an actual case where God did answer somebody's prayer? It ain't all God saying, "No," all the time. This happened at my church not a week ago. Our church isn't large enough to have a full staff. We can only pay the pastor's salary, and even that is sometimes a challenge. Even still, we have an assistant pastor who volunteers a lot of time and hours to run a prison ministry. He does a lot of good work in the Florida prisons, and he helps out individuals who have just been released from prison to get back on their feet. Lately he's been in need of a new car. His current car needs some repairs, and on top of that, it has no A/C. That's tough in Florida where it's summer 10 months out of the year. Recently a car was donated to our church. We have couple who currently teaches in the Iraqi-Kurdistan region (about 3 hours away from the front lines) who had no need to keep their car here in the states, so they gave it to the church. The assistant pastor was willing to pay for it, but instead they opted to give it to the church, and he would buy it from the church. That way, the church would get the money, right? Well, out of the blue, the counsel agrees to give it to the assistant pastor for free, and even pay for the title transfer. Not a single person was expecting that. Even I didn't see that coming. Heck, I was even questioning why he didn't just give the money to the church and avoid all the paperwork mess of transferring it from the original owner to the church and finally to the assistant pastor! But when God provides you with a new car, you don't question it.
So long answer; no. Prayer is extremely important. It is an act of obedience, an act of faith, and an act of trust. We tend to over-focus on the doom-and-gloom of the world, because that's what our news outlets focus on, but the reality is, God answers a lot, and I mean a lot of prayers, and bestows his blessings on a lot of things that you might not realize.
But no, it's not because we're telling Him what to do.
