I had my car broken into a while ago. And some things were stolen. I didn't feel like going through the insurance trouble since it was all small stuff and I didn't report it to the police since one of the items stolen was a "home video" of me and my girlfriend at the time. We were both underage in the tape but I just held onto it for keepsake. It looks like I have found out who has possession of the tape and they are threatening to put it on the internet. What legal actions can I take or what can I do to protect myself. I want to nail the guy who stole my stuff but I don't know how to go about it since I can't really prove he broke into my car and so forth. I was also wondering what kind of legal action I could get in myself. Any help would be greatly appreciated..