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Legal Advice:

Udel

Senior member
So, I made a post about this before, but this time I'm asking for some advice. Let me give you the short story.

Roomate asked me to duck out for a few hours so he could be with his girlfriend. He had a few friends over at the time I left but I was under no impression that they would be drinking. Anyway, I called a girl I knew and arranged to spend the night with her. I went to her place for a few hours then decided to run back to the dorm to grab somethings. (Change of clothes, shower.. 😛 )

So, anyway, when I get back to my room there are about 10 people having a pretty wild time. Normally I just turn a blind eye to this sort of thing, I like to have my fun too but I don't want to push things too far. I realized they were being pretty loud and it was pretty late so I told them to cool it, and offered some of the drunker guys a ride home. At the point of intoxication they were at (I'm talking 10+ shots across the board) they wanted nothing to do with me. Some even got physical with me for trying to rain on their parade.

Frusterated, I realized the best thing I could do would be to leave the room. Quite literally as I was getting my things the knock on the door. Almost instantly everyone who had been in my room snuck out through the back leaving me alone in the room... with one kid who was passed out. So, I had to answer the door and talk to my RA. He made note in his incident report that I was sober when I spoke with him. However, I am stuck going to court anyway.

So I went to my pre-trial hearing today with the passed out kid (not my roomate who, as much as I hate to do it, is going to have to fess up and take responsibility for this). The kid plead guilty to two charges, violation of the campus alchohol policy and some other garbage. I pled innocent to two charges, alchohol policy violation and another charge that claims I should be held responsible for what happened in the room. If I get hit with two strikes, its pretty serious. Especially since I wasn't involved with this.

Anyway, I am going to go to court risking two strikes instead of pleading guilty and taking one. I am going to bring a witness who will attest I was at her house, and the "passed out kid" who will also attest I was not involved. So my real question is, does anyone have any sort of legal advice that may help me. I obviously have never been in a situation like this and am not sure how to conduct myself in court. Any advice or input would be appriciated. Thanks guys.

Cliffs:
1. Party in my room, I was not there.
2. I came back, tried to get people to leave, give rides home.
3. Drunks wanted nothing to do with me, gave mea hard time.
4. As I was leaving again party got busted.
5. I'm stuck going to court.
6. Help? :cookie:
 
I can't give any legal advice for the situation, but if I were you I'd be awfully pissed off at my room mate and I'd drag him in front of the judiciary and make him confess.
 
Not really, this time I'm just asking for some kind of help. Legal rights, ect.. So I don't get chewed up. Your talking to someone who lives in Emacs, most things outside that are alien to me. 😛
 
Originally posted by: RyanSengara
I can't give any legal advice for the situation, but if I were you I'd be awfully pissed off at my room mate and I'd drag him in front of the judiciary and make him confess.

QFT. Have you talked to your roommate about just having him fess up and tell the truth?
 
this isn't a real court, right? just some campus disciplinary thing? does your school have a "free legal advice" clinic where you can talk to an attorney?
 
He is going to plead guilty himself, but I doubt he will do much for me. We are not too close.
 
First you go to a campus court. If I am charged and wish again to appeal, I go to a quasi-real court. I think.
 
Originally posted by: Udel
He is going to plead guilty himself, but I doubt he will do much for me. We are not too close.

Threaten him and beat his ass if he does not comply. If he does not come through I would make his life so miserable he would either move or kill himself.
 
Originally posted by: Udel
He is going to plead guilty himself, but I doubt he will do much for me. We are not too close.

Who cares how close they are, I'd throw his ****** computer out the window, or I'd go to the judiciary and ask for them to punish him for additional problems.
 
Wow, that doesn't sound fair at all. How did 10 people manage to get in first, and then out of the room without the RA noticing in the first place?
 
Well, what complicates the situation is this. I'm a pretty big tough guy, just how I was build. But I'm from out of state. My roomate grew up in the town near here, he has alot of crazy friends. They seem to be getting in fights almost constantly. I see what they do, they are not good people at all. I'm afraid if I say too much its going to come back and bite me in the ass one night. Or, kick me in the ass one night.
 
Originally posted by: Stretchman
Wow, that doesn't sound fair at all. How did 10 people manage to get in first, and then out of the room without the RA noticing in the first place?

In my residence hall two dorms are connected through a shared bathroom. Everyone snuck out the other room and made a run for it.
 
Originally posted by: Udel
Well, what complicates the situation is this. I'm a pretty big tough guy, just how I was build. But I'm from out of state. My roomate grew up in the town near here, he has alot of crazy friends. They seem to be getting in fights almost constantly. I see what they do, they are not good people at all. I'm afraid if I say too much its going to come back and bite me in the ass one night. Or, kick me in the ass one night.

Then appeal for a transfer to a new dorm room, if you know that there is nothing you can do about your roommate in these situations, and you know he's likely to do it again then that is the smart decision.

I did that with my roommate this year, he was a wild kid, nothing I could do about it, so I kicked him out.

 
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