Good IPS panels do have vastly
better color accuracy and consistency, even if it's not perfect. Better/worse is a measure inherently relative to available alternatives. Modern high-end IPS panels (not E-IPS), though not perfect, make other panel types look like a joke. It's a difference of not seeing the gradient shift until you really look for it vs. the color difference not being ignorable. Or the difference between bitten by a dog vs. a lion. I would rather not be bitten at all, but if I had to choose...
The best panel I have ever seen is the one I am currently using, the Dell U2713H. It's AH-IPS panel is truly breathtakingly beautiful, let down by the insane overdrive that Dell foisted on it. In context of the current discussion, it's the only panel that doesn't have
any discernible color shift, either from left-to-right or top-to-bottom that I can see with my naked eyes.
However, I am with you about the state of current monitors not being satisfactory. We shouldn't have to compromise on such basics. Display tech just isn't moving fast enough. Maybe OLED will be better, but that's perpetually far away from becoming mainstream.