Lady friend wants to go to strip club

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SoftwareEng

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Originally posted by: Ragnarok2
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
lol no one asked for pics yet?


yeah man send him some pics of your chest

ok first of all no pics b/c I can't bring a camera into the strip club, and second of all I'm in a pretty good shape :) I.e. nothing is hanging where it's not supposed to.
 

AgaBoogaBoo

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Originally posted by: SoftwareEng
Originally posted by: Ragnarok2
Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
lol no one asked for pics yet?


yeah man send him some pics of your chest

ok first of all no pics b/c I can't bring a camera into the strip club, and second of all I'm in a pretty good shape :) I.e. nothing is hanging where it's not supposed to.
I wasn't asking for pics of you, I was commenting on how AT didn't ask for pics of this lady that you mentioned ;)
 

lokiju

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Originally posted by: jpbelauskas
Just go and have some fun man :D :beer:

QFT, one of the best times I ever had at a strip club was with a chick, she got so worked up and turned on that it made the rest of the night a blast! :p
 

JDMnAR1

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Personally, I think she is trying to tell you that she wants to go to a strip club with you.

Don't overthink this man, just go and see where the night goes. Obviously don't force anything, but don't be a putz and ignore obvious signs either.
 

Queasy

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Originally posted by: anxi80
exceptions to the rule: a girlfriend/wife who wants to go with a guy and his pals. a recipe for disaster.

Another exception to the rule - you're married and a female friend wants you to take her to a strip club (yes this actually happened and I told her "No, I'd like to stay married.")

 

ColdFusion718

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Originally posted by: Queasy
If a girl wants to go to a strip club with you...don't ask any questions....just go.

Listen to this man--those are some wise words. What gets us in trouble is asking questions. The best thing we can do in situations like this one is to just shut up and play along.
 

EagleKeeper

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Some females may be curious of what the attraction is to males.

They could feel uncomfortable going in alone, therefore want an escort.
 

I Saw OJ

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Originally posted by: anxi80
Originally posted by: Queasy
If a girl wants to go to a strip club with you...don't ask any questions....just go.
exceptions to the rule: a girlfriend/wife who wants to go with a guy and his pals. a recipe for disaster. i know im going to get guys who say 'i took my wife with me and my buds and she got a lapdance and it was an awesome time'. yeah, awesome for you and your wife, sucks for your friends. they hold back how they would normally act, especially if your girl is friends with their girlfriends.

plus a strip club trip with your friends is just about the epitome of a guys night out, dont ruin it for everyone else by bringing her into the skanktuary. you just dont see guys pressing their girl to go to a bunco party or something. ive expressed this opinion before and a lot of people disagree with it, but for me its just one of those things.

but in the op's case, lady friend i say go for it. nothing to lose and everything to gain.

I agree with you 100%

I think its great couples like to spend a lot of time together however there are some situations where the S/O should not be brought, ie...race tracks/pool halls/strip clubs/poker nights...just to name a few.

For the OP, try to get her up on the stage to join in on the fun with one of the strippers.
 

CVSiN

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Originally posted by: SoftwareEng
If a girl I met recently wants me to go to a *female* strip club with her, is she trying to tell me she just wants to be friends? Is this some kind of test?..

The sick and perverted need not apply (95% of you :))

um beleive it or not there are women that have alot of fun at female strip clubs..

We go as a group all the time with guys and girls...

might mean your friend is bi and might be alot of fun =))
 

amdhunter

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I went to a strip club once with a woman. It was a horrible experience. The whole time I was thinking to myself jeez, mom why don't you give me those bills... :D

I personally hate strip clubs, but I would go if a decent looking woman asked me to.
 
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Lola

she could be "into you" and just trying to show you that she is fun and would not mind going to strip clubs with you as a friend or boyfriend.
That, or she might go both ways.
 

teckmaster

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Strip Clubs aren't just for men anymore. I lot of them have ladies night where if you bring your gf/wife they get drdink specials and things of that nature.

I always go to those places with women.
 

rasczak

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
she could be "into you" and just trying to show you that she is fun and would not mind going to strip clubs with you as a friend or boyfriend.
That, or she might go both ways.

We (i mean he) could only hope :D:D
 

Zap Brannigan

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Originally posted by: SoftwareEng
If a girl I met recently wants me to go to a *female* strip club with her, is she trying to tell me she just wants to be friends? Is this some kind of test?..

The sick and perverted need not apply (95% of you :))

She's telling you alot with that one if you recently met her.

So what kind of crack do you two smoke?
 

SagaLore

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Originally posted by: AgaBoogaBoo
lol no one asked for pics yet?

Nah, we're waiting for him to bring the video cam into the club. Don't want to waste the film until then.
 

randay

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What would ye do when your mast stands at full attention on the deck, yearrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.
 

Zap Brannigan

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Originally posted by: LolaWiz
she could be "into you" and just trying to show you that she is fun and would not mind going to strip clubs with you as a friend or boyfriend.
That, or she might go both ways.

Maybe she wants to give him 5 billion dollars for free too?

 

EndGame

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One of two things.......

She was/is interested in being a stripper.

She's bisexual and is trying to find a way to tell you.