Let me preface this with the fact that 6 months ago I broke up with my fiance and girlfriend of 8 years. I dated her from 16-24 and lived with her the last 3 years. So I am clueless on dating ettiquette and possibly intentions.
Yesterday was my 25th birthday and I was acting a lot more confident than usual for whatever reason. Long story short I was talking to a really hot girl (like my ideal girl) and we really clicked. She can quote at length "school of rock" and said "roflcopter" at one of my jokes. Anyway. We were both drinking a lot though, and over 3 hours of talking and drinking we both got pretty drunk. We kissed a lot, all of that. She wanted to go back to my apartment "but not take it too far" but seriously, it wasn't a good idea for several reasons (for example, I puked when I got home) so I finally got her to agree she should go back with her friends.
OK. I get back to my apartment and I have lost the number. I know her first name, the school she goes to, where she is from, and her lastname starts with L. She has my number too. I told her that I was new at "this" and to call me but I am not sure if she will. Her school only has a google search of the entire site and I can't find jack. However, I remember her friend's name (jessica), that she went to my school, major (chem), and that she is from the same hometown as this girl. Well, there is only 1 person by the description on the "people stalker" search on my school's site. So I know her friend's number/email.
OK. Questions.
Is there any likelyhood that she would indeed call me?
And would it be really weird if I emailed her friend?
If the answers are No/Yes that's fine. Last night was great and I can leave it at that. I have been really down as of late because my ex has found a new boyfriend and I hadn't even talked to a female yet. So last night really hit the spot.
Update, 4.5 years later
I married this girl and now we have a 1 year old daughter named Lily. I couldn't be happier. It was fun reading the generally negative feedback I got here though, and how I sort of stretched the story of us meeting ( she didn't want to go to my apartment, I can't remember that actually happening so it was probably my epeen).
Yesterday was my 25th birthday and I was acting a lot more confident than usual for whatever reason. Long story short I was talking to a really hot girl (like my ideal girl) and we really clicked. She can quote at length "school of rock" and said "roflcopter" at one of my jokes. Anyway. We were both drinking a lot though, and over 3 hours of talking and drinking we both got pretty drunk. We kissed a lot, all of that. She wanted to go back to my apartment "but not take it too far" but seriously, it wasn't a good idea for several reasons (for example, I puked when I got home) so I finally got her to agree she should go back with her friends.
OK. I get back to my apartment and I have lost the number. I know her first name, the school she goes to, where she is from, and her lastname starts with L. She has my number too. I told her that I was new at "this" and to call me but I am not sure if she will. Her school only has a google search of the entire site and I can't find jack. However, I remember her friend's name (jessica), that she went to my school, major (chem), and that she is from the same hometown as this girl. Well, there is only 1 person by the description on the "people stalker" search on my school's site. So I know her friend's number/email.
OK. Questions.
Is there any likelyhood that she would indeed call me?
And would it be really weird if I emailed her friend?
If the answers are No/Yes that's fine. Last night was great and I can leave it at that. I have been really down as of late because my ex has found a new boyfriend and I hadn't even talked to a female yet. So last night really hit the spot.
Update, 4.5 years later
I married this girl and now we have a 1 year old daughter named Lily. I couldn't be happier. It was fun reading the generally negative feedback I got here though, and how I sort of stretched the story of us meeting ( she didn't want to go to my apartment, I can't remember that actually happening so it was probably my epeen).
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