You're not raining on my parade.

Actually, starting that thread forced me to really think about the situation. That is why I said now, that I don't know if I'm in love with love or him. I will be careful. I've waited too long to settle for someone less than what I want. Besides, getting involved with someone just to "be" with someone isn't good. I want my relationship to be based on love. Not some notion of what the person could be because of what I've built up in my mind over the internet. Like I said, I will definitely know more when I see him. Thank you for your advice, btw. (And everyone else's.)