Jim,
While I don't know how to exactly figure maximum refresh rates/resolutions, I do know all monitors have a certain bandwidth cap which determines the max resolution/refresh rate the monitor can handle. Most all the clone FD Sony monitors have a 220MHz max bandwidth, sometimes called dot clock, anyway, this should allow 1200x1600@85Hz. My CTX Sony clone allows this resolution/refresh rate using a eVGA GFMX which has the same RAMDAC as the GF.
Here's a page from the site you link in your sig that list the specs for the KDS monitor.
http://shop.monitorsdirect.com/searchresults.asp?dept_id=2&mfg_id=3028
As for NFS4's problem - check to see if the proper monitor is displayed in the display properties pannel, if so then it's most likly a Nvidia driver issue with Win2K. You can also try using a monitor driver in the Windows driver data base if Win2K has them - don't know, haven't tried it.
Sorry about the link, can't get the code to work right - M