Just when you thought your life was moving along smoothly ... then this happens.

[LuckyTaxi]

Coincedence?

1 - Fiance's 10 y/o sister gets her first period. Isn't this kinda early?
2 - Fiance's 16 y/o sister (who's married to some 19 y/o loser w/ no job) is pregnant.
3 - My fiance herself might be pregnant.

Great, so now the household (well, my fiance and I live together but we spend quite some
time at her mom's house) is expecting two babies both at the same time!!!!

What's messed up is her mom and other sister says her 16 y/o sis will most likely suffer greatly
since she's basically dropped out of school and her husband sits at home all day and play video
games. Yea he doesnt work.

 

[Cuda1447]

Congrats on the baby, and good luck with the marriage.

 

[conjur]

Start drinking bottled water...someone's tampered with your water supply.



Seriously, good luck w/you and your fiancee. As for the younger ones....the 16y/o is married? That won't last...in all probability. Sad...but true.

 

Congrats to you, sucks for the 16 y/o (abortion an option? Dont let that child suffer), not common but can happen for the 10 y/o.

 

[LuckyTaxi]

The guy is trying to make her quit but she doesnt want to. However, she's failing chemistry once again so she
might just give it up and go to work. sad thing is, there isn't any work for someone who's a HS drop out.

Thanks ... hopefully my fiance is late with her monthly thing. Not sure if I am ready to be a dad, but if she is
then it's all good. I do what I have to do and take care of my responsibility.

 

[SyahM]

congrats on the baby, and seek help for the middle sister.

 

[LuckyTaxi]

Originally posted by: SyahM
congrats on the baby, and seek help for the middle sister.

She's beyond help ... I found out a couple months back that they both wanted a child. Why I dont know, but
they have unprotected site and he doesn't bother pulling out anyways.

Oh yea, I'm not looking forward to playing uncle and buying stuff for her child. There's no doubt that her sister
(my fiance) will somehow feel sorry for her sis and support her financially. This sucks ...

 

[LeeTJ]

Originally posted by: lilcam
The guy is trying to make her quit but she doesnt want to. However, she's failing chemistry once again so she
might just give it up and go to work. sad thing is, there isn't any work for someone who's a HS drop out.

Thanks ... hopefully my fiance is late with her monthly thing. Not sure if I am ready to be a dad, but if she is
then it's all good. I do what I have to do and take care of my responsibility.

i doubt she's ready to be a dad.

Hope it works out either way.

 

[zCypher]

Sh!t.. that sucks, man.

 

[Pliablemoose]

Welcome to the wonderful world of in-laws

We all have them, just learn to live with it. I've had to put my foot down a time or 2 & set some pretty rigid rules to make life with them bearable.

 

[Amused]

I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

 

[LeeTJ]

Originally posted by: Amused
I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

steroids in food, particularly meats. all the steroids they pump into cattle to make them more profitable. even in milk.

 

[LuckyTaxi]

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Amused
I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

steroids in food, particularly meats. all the steroids they pump into cattle to make them more profitable. even in milk.

Yea ... shes overweight ... overweight asian girl. not many times do you see an overweight asian person

 

[GTaudiophile]

1) Normal actually.
2) No one put her on the pill?
3) No one put her on the pill?

 

[Whisper]

10 is still a bit early, but yeah, being overweight triggers the brain to kick out the menarche at an earlier age. Most of it is determined by the amount of fat on a female's body, and with increasing prevalence of childhood obesity in america, that and the steroids in foods nowadays are the main reasons for young girls having their periods.

 

[Amused]

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Amused
I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

steroids in food, particularly meats. all the steroids they pump into cattle to make them more profitable. even in milk.

Ya know, it's assumptions like this that lead to irrational fears... like the breast implant hysteria.

 

[LeeTJ]

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Amused
I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

steroids in food, particularly meats. all the steroids they pump into cattle to make them more profitable. even in milk.

Ya know, it's assumptions like this that lead to irrational fears... like the breast implant hysteria.

what assumptions? you asked a question and i responded with a guess. YTF do you bother asking the question then?

btw, i have seen studies that i based my opinion on and no i don't have links cause i saw those studies years ago and i haven't bothered to track them down.


It's responses like yours that keep this board from being civil.

 

[iamme]

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Amused
I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

steroids in food, particularly meats. all the steroids they pump into cattle to make them more profitable. even in milk.

Ya know, it's assumptions like this that lead to irrational fears... like the breast implant hysteria.

*grabs breasts*

wait, what's wrong with my boobies!??!

 

[Amused]

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Amused
I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

steroids in food, particularly meats. all the steroids they pump into cattle to make them more profitable. even in milk.

Ya know, it's assumptions like this that lead to irrational fears... like the breast implant hysteria.

what assumptions? you asked a question and i responded with a guess. YTF do you bother asking the question then?

btw, i have seen studies that i based my opinion on and no i don't have links cause i saw those studies years ago and i haven't bothered to track them down.


It's responses like yours that keep this board from being civil.

Oh bullsh!t. You didn't present your answer as a 'guess." You stated it as fact.

 

[Amused]

Originally posted by: iamme

Originally posted by: Amused

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Amused
I actually read a few things in the past couple of years that showed girls are going through puberty MUCH earlier than they used to. And it pointed out that the change to earlier puberty, while crossing racial lines, was more pronounced for black girls than white girls.

I wonder what's causing it?

steroids in food, particularly meats. all the steroids they pump into cattle to make them more profitable. even in milk.

Ya know, it's assumptions like this that lead to irrational fears... like the breast implant hysteria.

*grabs breasts*

wait, what's wrong with my boobies!??!

Nothing. Nothing at all. Those are some mighty fine boobies you got there, sweetie.

 

[StageLeft]

Get her an early pregnancy test and be done with it.

 

[Lucky]

you asked a question and i responded with a guess.

"guess" my ass. :|

 

[LeeTJ]

Originally posted by: Lucky

you asked a question and i responded with a guess.

"guess" my ass. :|

who asked you moron?

btw, ya, i used the word "guess". in my post your referring to, does it anywhere specifically state it is a fact?

in my post where i say guess, I specifically state that my opinions were based on studies i'd seen years ago.

sheesh, are you people really that insecure about what you believe that you overreact to other peoples opinions.

 

[Lucky]

Originally posted by: LeeTJ

Originally posted by: Lucky

you asked a question and i responded with a guess.

"guess" my ass. :|

who asked you moron?

btw, ya, i used the word "guess". in my post your referring to, does it anywhere specifically state it is a fact?

in my post where i say guess, I specifically state that my opinions were based on studies i'd seen years ago.

sheesh, are you people really that insecure about what you believe that you overreact to other peoples opinions.

You stated it as fact. You might not have meant to but you did. And yes, I am defensive about it because our family raises cattle and we dont need people like you spreading "opinions" as fact.
:disgust:

 

[isaacmacdonald]

Originally posted by: lilcam
The guy is trying to make her quit but she doesnt want to. However, she's failing chemistry once again so she
might just give it up and go to work. sad thing is, there isn't any work for someone who's a HS drop out.

Thanks ... hopefully my fiance is late with her monthly thing. Not sure if I am ready to be a dad, but if she is
then it's all good. I do what I have to do and take care of my responsibility.

not exactly the stereotypical asian thing (assuming the younger sister is biological). wtf is that though, giving up HS to go to work? gimmie a break. Lots of people fail chemistry, just move to a lower level and graduate. I can't believe anyone would be that crazy. also, does she really want to raise a child like this?