I also have an Epox 8RDA+ (A1/C1 stepping with latest official BIOS and nForce drivers) and 2 sticks of Crucial XMS3200 512MB Ram, with my Barton 2500+ CPU.
Best I can do is 12x195FSB synched. Obviously, my RAM is rated to do more than this. This isn't an uncommon issue with the 8RDA+. While it's pretty easy to get 200FSB with the mobo, it isn't guaranteed right out of the box (unless you have Version 2.0 along with a Barton 3200+ CPU).
The usual culprit is the North Bridge. First of all, the VDD voltage is too low on the north bridge to keep it stable at high FSB settings. My VDD is below 1.6v. For 200Mhz FSB and higher, it seems the north bridge likes to be at 1.8v or higher. Secondly, the north bridge isn't actively cooled. It just has a heatsink (no fan), and to make things worse, it often isn't fitted very well due to the design of the north bridge chip (though newer boards apparently have corrected this).
Seems silly, since the FSB can potentially go so high, right? Well, even so, the board is actually rated for 166FSB CPU's. Anything higher is an overclock, and while this board is a good overclocker, it means it's not always guaranteed to perform at what we might like.
How to fix this? There are 3 possible solutions (which if done I have never heard failing yet):
1) Remove the CPU jumper that controls FSB. The jumper is normally set at 166. Moving the jumper to 100/133 (or completely removing the jumper, think it does the same thing) seems to add stability for some reason. This is the quickest and easiest solution, but doesn't guarantee a solution.
2) Add active cooling to the North Bridge. It's possible you're NB is getting too hot at higher FSB settings. Removing the heatsink and installing a HSF can increase stability at higher speeds. Again, this doesn't guarantee a solution alone.
3) Last solution involves what is known as the "VDD Mod". It involves soldering a resistor to the chip which regulates voltage to the North Bridge, which "fools" it into thinking the north bridge is not receiving enough voltage, and bumps the voltage. The higher voltage adds greater stability to FSB overclocks. Most people find something around 1.8v allows for easy overclocking to 200FSB and higher. If this is done, be sure to add active cooling to the north bridge, as the increased voltage = increased heat. This solution is by far the best for fixing this problem, but also voids the warranty and can be deadly to your motherboard if done incorrectly.
I've yet to try running my CPU at 166Mhz and putting the RAM at 200Mhz to see if I can do that, but that is kind of silly since unsynched 166/200 gives less performance than synched 166/166 from what I've read.
One more thing - I've been unsuccessful at getting my RAM to run at good timings at 195Mhz. Best I can do at that speed is 3,3,3,8 or something like that (aka Optimal settings at this speed). Anything faster (like 3,3,3,7) won't let me boot into Windows. While I'm going to play around with my VDIMM settings, I'm guessing it's the same VDD problem that is keeping me from 200Mhz in the first place.
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