If you're 19, and they are just now having this type of discussion with you, I'd say they missed the boat. 
Well, I wasn't really talking to my mom for "the talk", just to let her know what was up.
And yeah, they totally missed the boat.
db
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"I just don't want to see some girl completely ruining your dreams. "
Sounds like she might be speaking from experience. People often project themselves onto other people's motives.
As far as sex, it's a little late for "the talk". Sounds like obfuscation, confusion and guilt is the method of communication.
But I will say this: if and when you have sex with anyone, make damned sure you wear a condom, unless you intend to father a child.
Sounds like she might be speaking from experience. People often project themselves onto other people's motives.
As far as sex, it's a little late for "the talk". Sounds like obfuscation, confusion and guilt is the method of communication.
But I will say this: if and when you have sex with anyone, make damned sure you wear a condom, unless you intend to father a child.
d00d, how old are you? My mother let me "be friends" with girls in my room when i was 13. She would even leave the house. Are you really 10 and trying to be 19?
never had the talk.
I remember when I was about to come out of the closet to my dad one day, and he interrupted me and said that whatever I was about to say, he didn't want to know. heh.
I remember when I was about to come out of the closet to my dad one day, and he interrupted me and said that whatever I was about to say, he didn't want to know. heh.
DanTMWTMP
Lifer
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oh btw, when I had this talk w/ my Dad, he said "are you a virgin?" I didn't answer due to the initial shock, and he said "man, how old are you? 20 now? hah, you can't beat your dad!! I got laid @ 17! hahaha!" *points finger @ me and laughs*. I'm dumbfounded. I had to defend my honor and said "no, it was a year ago, i was 19."
He then proceeded to say "i got drunk when i was 16!!"
ok, obviously, my Dad was joking around, and I was old enough at the time to understand what's right and wrong and not to follow mischievious Dad's adventures when he was young. I think my parents did a pretty damn good job of raising me and my bro. If I had kids like me and my bro, I'd be friggin happy as hell (healthy dudes w/ respectable college degrees and jobs).
So ya, you're in a good place to live right? Your parents provided everything for you and your education. You should take their advice to heart. It was a lot easier w/ my Dad since he was very very open about the subject. I mean, i got caught masturbating by my dad 3 times!!! damn he's so sneaky! He knows when a kid will do it! lol. Of course the first time he took appropriate disciplinary action of catching me watching pr0n.
When he caught me when I was an independent, well...let's just say it was wierd for me, but he said "dude, that site's free?! where'd u get it?!"
He then proceeded to say "i got drunk when i was 16!!"
ok, obviously, my Dad was joking around, and I was old enough at the time to understand what's right and wrong and not to follow mischievious Dad's adventures when he was young. I think my parents did a pretty damn good job of raising me and my bro. If I had kids like me and my bro, I'd be friggin happy as hell (healthy dudes w/ respectable college degrees and jobs).
So ya, you're in a good place to live right? Your parents provided everything for you and your education. You should take their advice to heart. It was a lot easier w/ my Dad since he was very very open about the subject. I mean, i got caught masturbating by my dad 3 times!!! damn he's so sneaky! He knows when a kid will do it! lol. Of course the first time he took appropriate disciplinary action of catching me watching pr0n
.When he caught me when I was an independent, well...let's just say it was wierd for me, but he said "dude, that site's free?! where'd u get it?!"
Yea! The evangelical right is here! Dont be dumb sparky. Dont be dumb.
Wait, i get it. Sorry, but if youre 28 then your post is just shens. :thumbsup:
Soccerman06
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My parents first chat with me about dating was very short:
Dad: "Son wear a condom if you have sex." then he whispered me so my mom couldnt here "make me proud."
Mom: "dont embarris me."
Me: "ok"
Then I walked away.
Thats all the advice I got without me starting a conversation.
Dad: "Son wear a condom if you have sex." then he whispered me so my mom couldnt here "make me proud."
Mom: "dont embarris me."
Me: "ok"
Then I walked away.
Thats all the advice I got without me starting a conversation.
Soccerman06
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dont bash virgins, its not their fault that they cant get a girl, its society. :laugh:
I bet his hand was his best friend for 18 years.
Soccerman06
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My talk went like this:
Dad:"Condoms are in the drawer, behind the socks. If you need more, check the drawer underneath."
:laugh:
Dad:"Condoms are in the drawer, behind the socks. If you need more, check the drawer underneath."
:laugh:
Soccerman06
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Dont even try to pull the drunk card on this bud, Im trashed and my spelling and grammer are relatively good.
Originally posted by: Soccerman06
Dont even try to pull the drunk card on this bud, Im trashed and my spelling and grammer are relatively good.
D00d, i be speeling 4 yars. I speel bester then yoo eber no. Again jost STFU. :|
Soccerman06
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Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: Soccerman06
Dont even try to pull the drunk card on this bud, Im trashed and my spelling and grammer are relatively good.
D00d, i be speeling 4 yars. I speel bester then yoo eber no. Again jost STFU. :|
:|
Soccerman06
Diamond Member
- Jul 29, 2004
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Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: Soccerman06
Dont even try to pull the drunk card on this bud, Im trashed and my spelling and grammer are relatively good.
D00d, i be speeling 4 yars. I speel bester then yoo eber no. Again jost STFU. :|
:|
KLin
Lifer
- Feb 29, 2000
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Originally posted by: Soccerman06
Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: Soccerman06
Dont even try to pull the drunk card on this bud, Im trashed and my spelling and grammer are relatively good.
D00d, i be speeling 4 yars. I speel bester then yoo eber no. Again jost STFU. :|
:|
It took you that long to figure out he was fscking with you?
Originally posted by: Soccerman06
Originally posted by: homercles337
Originally posted by: Soccerman06
Dont even try to pull the drunk card on this bud, Im trashed and my spelling and grammer are relatively good.
D00d, i be speeling 4 yars. I speel bester then yoo eber no. Again jost STFU. :|
:|
D00d, dunt b angry bcuz me speeling un grammar is bester then joo. dunt b angry sparky. dunt b angry.
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