Just ran a search on my name ...

Patt

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I haven't heard from/talked to this woman since ... hmmm ... August 1999. We had a bit of a long-distance relationship, and I cut it off because it just wasn't working for me. She was too needy, and I was fairly convinced she was fooling around with a guy at her school.

Anyways, this creeped me out. I was just trying to see what would come up if a prospective employer ran a search.

Note: her last message was dated April of 2006 :shocked: <-- well, to me anyway.

I don't plan on contacting her back, as I've been married for almost 5 years now.
 

yowolabi

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You should see what she wants. Maybe you have a son she needs to tell you about.


Or maybe that's why you don't want to contact her.
 

Patt

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Originally posted by: yowolabi
You should see what she wants. Maybe you have a son she needs to tell you about.

Or maybe that's why you don't want to contact her.

If that was the case, she would have been able to contact my parents before they moved a couple of years ago ... she would still have had that information.

Is there a statute of limitations on something like that :p

Edit: I'd put up pics, but I'm not at home, maybe later if I can find them.
 

James Bond

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So when you did the search, what do the hits that come up say?

'HAV U SEEN THIS MAN? HE IS MY EX BOYFRIEND I LOV HIM <3 <3"
 

Patt

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Originally posted by: Tizyler
So when you did the search, what do the hits that come up say?

'HAV U SEEN THIS MAN? HE IS MY EX BOYFRIEND I LOV HIM <3 <3"

Not quite ... but a couple of them described where we met (overseas) in a somewhat romantic fashion.
 

James Bond

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Were they posts by her describing you, in an attempt to find you?

Milk carton style?
 

gsethi

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perhaps she just found out that she has some STD (and perhaps wants to inform you of that ?)...

that or what chrisms said....good luck
 

torpid

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Create a new hotmail account or similar and contact her, without revealing any new contact information. What's the harm? You can just stop using the account if you have to.
 

meltdown75

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Wow, crazy! Looks like she finally gave up the search though, but she sure did stalk you for a while! LOL
 

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Originally posted by: Leeroy
Gmail account. Hotmail's traceable, at least gmail will strip your IP.

But then you only have 99 left. Or is it 999 now?
 

Patt

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Originally posted by: meltdown75
Wow, crazy! Looks like she finally gave up the search though, but she sure did stalk you for a while! LOL

That is what I'm hoping anyway ...
 

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Originally posted by: Queasy
Well...that's better than me. I just ran a search on a whim....apparently, there is a gay version of me in London...an architect.

My doppleganger is in the UK as well. But not surprising for me, my last name is indian and first name is american/english.