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tec699

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While I'm still in college I work midnight security at my local mall. The people that are with me during the midnight shift clean and buff the floors. There all Mexicans and a couple can speak English. The girl that I'm going to mention shortly can speak English. The floor crew work from 10:00pm-6:30am. My hours are from 12:00pm-8:00am

At 6:00am workers from the 1st shift start to filter into the mall. The one individual that I'm concerned about is sexually attracted to the young Mexican worker. I've noticed that this guy loves to stare at this girl a little to much. In my opinion it can be a bit intimidating. Anyway, he is in his 40's, she is only 26 years old. He's been in jail a couple of times. He doesn't stand a chance with this girl.

The guy is nice enough. We talk all the time, but today he turned to one of his co-workers and said "You know that cute Mexican? I'm going to get her to suck my d*ck!" I'm a guy so I know how we operate but I don't know if I should say something or just forget about it? I don't know the guy that well. I do know that he has been in jail when he was younger. He's a flat out racist. He likes to throw the N word around and he has this theory that all blacks are gangbangers. Plus there are other issues as well but I'm not going to talk about them.

He has done NOTHING to this girl. NOTHING!! Anyway what should I do? I'm thinking about pulling the girl to the side tonight and I'm going to tell her what I've seen so far. I'm going to tell her about the staring and that's it. I'm not telling her that he wants her to suk his d*ck! I don't want to freak her out and I don't want to start trouble. If I talk with this girl I'm just going to let her know that she needs to see me as soon as possible if he tries anything.

So should I tell this girl about this situation or should I just ignore it?
 
Young Mexican girls will often times go for older guys without prospects. I've seen it happen a couple times.
 
I would stay away from the situation all togather. You know what jealous guys can do right? You tell her something, she is going go tell her friend, who is going to tell someone else, and it is going to reach the guy. He will think you are messing up his game, and when that happens, depending how insecure the person is, BAD things can happen.
 
Originally posted by: Nebor
Young Mexican girls will often times go for older guys without prospects. I've seen it happen a couple times.
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I guees, but what should I do? Is what he said harmless? What about the staring? I was working last week and this guy had his eyes transfixed on this girl until she clocked out and went home. I could tell that she knew he was staring at her and it was making her very nervous.

Do I think that he might try to rape her? I seriously doubt it, but what about touching? Could this take place? I don;t know but I don't know this guy that well. He's only been at the mall for 2 months.
 
I don't know...its not really any of your business and assuming that the girl isn't in fact interested nothing will probably come of it. Do you know what this guy was in jail for? If it was sexual assualt I would definately tell her to watch her back...but otherwise I'm not to sure. It might be a good idea to give her a heads up anyway.
 
do you know her well?
if not, aint really your business.

if you really think there is a problem (which there doesnt seem to be except that he is a bit crude)
tell her.
otherwise you will come off as creepy and weird.
 
I would stay out of it. Now if he does something without her consent, then it's time to kick his ass. Otherwise, it's their business.
 
Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
I would stay away from the situation all togather. You know what jealous guys can do right? You tell her something, she is going go tell her friend, who is going to tell someone else, and it is going to reach the guy. He will think you are messing up his game, and when that happens, depending how insecure the person is, BAD things can happen.
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Yea, thats what I'm worried about. As I stated earlier I seriously doubt that this girl would even give this guy the time of day. He has nothing going for him. Also, he has missing teeth. If that matters. 😀

I'm worried that it's going to get back to him and he's going to be offended that I thought he may try something with this girl. I'm not worried that hes' going to be pissed because I'm messing up his game. Hell he has no game.
 
Kind of a touchy situation.

I would probably just stay out of it for now. If he is truly predatory he probably wouldn't be bragging about it to coworkers.

He hasn't really done anything wrong at this point, even if he is a creep.

Viper GTS
 
Originally posted by: PingSpike
I don't know...its not really any of your business and assuming that the girl isn't in fact interested nothing will probably come of it. Do you know what this guy was in jail for? If it was sexual assualt I would definately tell her to watch her back...but otherwise I'm not to sure. It might be a good idea to give her a heads up anyway.
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It is my buisness because I'm the security guard at the mall. Her safety is my buisness and if something happens guess who my supervisor is going to come to first?

🙁
 
would you be as concerned if it were a 26 y/o guy and an older woman? 😛

IMO, I'd stay out of it but try and keep on eye on the situation. It could just be guy talk, in which case you'd only get the older guy pissed off at you.
 
Originally posted by: tec699
Originally posted by: PingSpike
I don't know...its not really any of your business and assuming that the girl isn't in fact interested nothing will probably come of it. Do you know what this guy was in jail for? If it was sexual assualt I would definately tell her to watch her back...but otherwise I'm not to sure. It might be a good idea to give her a heads up anyway.
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It is my buisness because I'm the security guard at the mall. Her safety is my buisness and if something happens guess who my supervisor is going to come to first?

🙁
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True enough, but you're understandably a little torn right now because its hard to say if there really is anything wrong going on. I would probably just keep an eye on the situation, maybe ask supervisor and the other security guys if there are any to do the same.
 
tech699 - you are what happens when TGG and Ducknuts are combined in some horrible frankenstein experiment gone wrong...
 
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Kind of a touchy situation.

I would probably just stay out of it for now. If he is truly predatory he probably wouldn't be bragging about it to coworkers.

He hasn't really done anything wrong at this point, even if he is a creep.

Viper GTS
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Approaching the girl is a bad idea. She knows the guy stares at her, obviously. Besides, she is a 26 year old woman, not a child. You'd end up looking like the creep.

Just make your presence known as a security officer.
 


If you do anything about the situation, where do you draw the line?
If he wasn't an exconvict, then would you be as worried?
Maybe you should start snooping around the restrooms/lockerrooms too?

Could youtalk to your supervisor without mentioning any specifics? Just say that you're getting bad vibes from the guy?
 
Next time he says something like that or expresses interest in her. Just tell him that its not good to hit on girls in your workplace. It can lead to lots of problems, like sexual harrasment and could get him fired or sued. Tell him there are plenty of good looking girls outside of the workplace to go after or quit before asking her out to avoid the lawsuits.

Be careful how you state it though, he may think you're just saying it because you want her for yourself.
 
Next time he boasts about how he'll make her suck his d!ck--ask, "How do you plan do to that, exactly?"
Then you can decide if you want to snitch on him or help him.


-Case
 
Originally posted by: tec699
While I'm still in college I work midnight security at my local mall. The people that are with me during the midnight shift clean and buff the floors. There all Mexicans and a couple can speak English. The girl that I'm going to mention shortly can speak English. The floor crew work from 10:00pm-6:30am. My hours are from 12:00pm-8:00am

At 6:00am workers from the 1st shift start to filter into the mall. The one individual that I'm concerned about is sexually attracted to the young Mexican worker. I've noticed that this guy loves to stare at this girl a little to much. In my opinion it can be a bit intimidating. Anyway, he is in his 40's, she is only 26 years old. He's been in jail a couple of times. He doesn't stand a chance with this girl.

The guy is nice enough. We talk all the time, but today he turned to one of his co-workers and said "You know that cute Mexican? I'm going to get her to suck my d*ck!" I'm a guy so I know how we operate but I don't know if I should say something or just forget about it? I don't know the guy that well. I do know that he has been in jail when he was younger. He's a flat out racist. He likes to throw the N word around and he has this theory that all blacks are gangbangers. Plus there are other issues as well but I'm not going to talk about them.

He has done NOTHING to this girl. NOTHING!! Anyway what should I do? I'm thinking about pulling the girl to the side tonight and I'm going to tell her what I've seen so far. I'm going to tell her about the staring and that's it. I'm not telling her that he wants her to suk his d*ck! I don't want to freak her out and I don't want to start trouble. If I talk with this girl I'm just going to let her know that she needs to see me as soon as possible if he tries anything.

So should I tell this girl about this situation or should I just ignore it?
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stay out of it. none of your business.
 
Originally posted by: woowoo
Let the girl know everything.
Maybe she will be gratefull and........



(Mall security guard Ha, Ha, Ha)
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yea.. yea.. yea..

One more semester till graduation and since I'm a special ed major getting a job is going to be a non-issue. I hope anyway..


😀
 
Originally posted by: Viper GTS
Kind of a touchy situation.

I would probably just stay out of it for now. If he is truly predatory he probably wouldn't be bragging about it to coworkers.

He hasn't really done anything wrong at this point, even if he is a creep.

Viper GTS
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Agreed. Listen to this man. The guy sucks, but as of right now he's not a criminal or even a 'bad guy.'
 
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