just had a fight with my gf, am i right or wrong here?

Mark

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this is a long story but ill type it out. so me and a girl(who ive been dating for about a month) hooked up officially about 2 weeks ago. so shes at my house using my laptop and logs into myspace. she then says she wants to create me an account so we can exchange messages. I DONT HAVE A REAL MYSPACE ACCOUNT, technically I have one but its blank, i just use it to look at other peoples pictures. i dont really want one. she knows this and has asked me about it a few times before why i dont have a real one, which i have explained to her several times why(because i dont like to put my business out there). the more she asks me the more i feel like she thinks im hiding something. she knows the email address(which is my email address i use for spam) that i use to log into my myspace account. so anyway she says she is going to set it up and it gets into the login page. shes typing in my email address when it autofill popup from firefox comes up, both my REAL email address and my spam email address comes up automatically. so she asks for my password to my "real myspace" account. she asks me this because on her pc at home(a mac) the only email address that pops up is the one that she logs into myspace with, where as on my pc it comes up with my spam email address(which is the one i log into myspace with) and my personal email address which i use for gmail(btw anyone know why it comes up in the list if ive never used it with myspace?).


anyway thats how it all started and i told her several times i had nothing to hide and i didnt appreciate being asked those questions(i was cussing when saying this btw, not cussing her out but just cussing). there was another incident last week about my cell phone that upset me too but we patched it. i basically rolled over in bed and didnt want to look or talk to her about it. she was asking me why i was being so mean to her and such, but wouldnt you get upset as well if someone accused you of hiding something? she then stormed off, then called me from the road. we were going back and forth for 10 minutes and were getting nowhere. i told her something(i forgot what it was), she then said "whatever", i said "whatever" as well then hung up on her.
 

S Freud

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If you've only been dating for 2 weeks and she's already assuming things obviously she has trust issues.

Short answer is: Bail.

But its your call.
 

dug777

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I'll help you if you help me help you.

Some paragraphs would be good for starters ;)
 

RelaxTheMind

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Originally posted by: TheGoodGuy
RUN... RUN AWAY!!!!!!!!!!

Cheat on her with one of her friends that she thinks is so much prettier than her. Don't tell her but let her find out about it on a day she thinks that she is pregnant.
 

AbAbber2k

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Originally posted by: S Freud
If you've only been dating for 2 weeks and she's already assuming things obviously she has trust issues.

Short answer is: Bail.

But its your call.

 

Captante

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Originally posted by: S Freud
If you've only been dating for 2 weeks and she's already assuming things obviously she has trust issues.

Short answer is: Bail.

But its your call.

Well said.
 

S Freud

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Originally posted by: PeeluckyDuckee
She's the one with the pvssy, so that makes you automatically wrong....all the time. :p

Not true.

I would go back to my hand in a heartbeat if it meant backing down from all arguments.
 

BigJ

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If she can't trust you on the little things like this, I'd say don't even try to make this into a serious relationship.
 

amicold

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Originally posted by: S Freud
If you've only been dating for 2 weeks and she's already assuming things obviously she has trust issues.

Short answer is: Bail.

But its your call.

:thumbsup:

You're not attached. Jump ship, or better yet make her walk the plank.
 
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oh FF autofill can get you into trouble lol, i know its got me into trouble when my gf went onto my facebook and saw messages off my ex asking me to attend her birthday celebration and messages of me contemplating going. (ex is still not really over me, so used phrases such as it'll be good to see you again xxxx at the end etc)

my gf snoops all the time, its annoying. ive told her its annoying once, but she still does it. i just pretend like i didnt see her checking my mobile then quickly putting it back when i walk into the room. its not that i have stuff to hide, its the fact she's flicking through MY stuff. i dont care what you say, even if you have nothing to hide, you have to feel that you still have *some* privacy.

im a very private person, i like time to myself to do the things i like, i just dont appreciate people looking through my things without asking. if you ask, thats fine....look away. (before anyone takes that offer up lol, i have to at least know you lol)

 

angminas

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i basically rolled over in bed and didnt want to look or talk to her about it.

You're already boinking her? Not good.

She thinks you're weird if you don't like MySpaz? Not good.

You fight over cell phones? Not good.

She tries to log into your cyber stuff and you LET HER? Not good.

She's looking to make you even weirder than she is so she can rehabilitate you with the wonders of MySpace. You're a project. You're a patient. You're her warm-blooded Barbie doll.

Please don't have kids with her.

RUN FORREST RUN
 

SmoochyTX

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Dump her.

Besides her acting immaturely, she's behaving rudely. She also definitely has trust issues. If she's behaving this way this early in the relationship, I'd hate to hear how she's acting in 3 months or 6 months.