just a movie, or dinner and movie?

[aUt0eXebat]

im taking this girl out on i guess an actual date i guess, should i take her to eat first?
or should i ask if shed like to go?

 

[Platypus]

both, dont be cheap

 

[Soybomb]

Yeah ask her out to eat, you cant talk and get to know each other in a movie like you can over a meal.

 

[Azraele]

Dinner and a movie.

You could take her out to eat for dinner before the movie, or ask if she'd like to go for something like coffee afterwards.

 

[RDMustang1]

movies are good for making out, if that's all you want then go aheaed.... if you want to get to know her and talk to her then both

 

[TallBill]

dude, make dinner for her that will highly impress her

 

[aUt0eXebat]

id love to be able to do that (make her diner) but i cant cook for crap.. ill ask her if she would like to get something to eat..... and id like to get to know her, so dinner would be good

what type of place? Dennys is cool, but that might look cheap? i was thinking a resturant

 

[goshdarnindie]

Both, that way the two of you will spend the entire movie trying not to fart.

 

[aUt0eXebat]

haha yea, i guess i better stay away from the chicken then! :Q

 

[LordJezo]

NO DENNYS!

That?s a step below where you want to go.

Go to someplace like Applebees, Bennagins, Ruby Tuesdays, Chili?s and such. Those are good places to get simple food (aka: fancy named burger) and is not that much money.

As for a restaurant: they are hard to come by now a days (the above types below do not count as restaurants..) where do you live? Stay away from Italian.. don't want her to accidentally (or you for that matter) drop some sauce on yourself and look like a fool for the rest of the night.

Movies (I have found) are a bit awkward for a first date.. its all dark and quiet and such and if you dont really know the person, you are not sure of what you are supposed to do. Save that for a second date, it would flow much easier.


(side note: how old are you two?)

 

[TallBill]

haha.. you got an olive garden near you? thats a decent place thats not to expensive.. maybe thats a lil much tho.. btw, how old are ya? cuz it makes a difference.. you could try a nice local pizza joint or somethin.. dennys just sounds lame to girls (most.. if she suggested it tho.. yer in like flint )

-edit- the places jezo mentioned work too

 

[AaronP]

nowadays, college girls are so slutty that you don't even need to spend $$ to nail em like the good ol days. Just spend 5 min with them at a party and get a little alcohol pumping into them and they'll be ready for docking maneuvers. It makes it easy for us guys.

 

[aUt0eXebat]

well i am 19 and she is 16. we have a ruby tuesday in the bangor mall (Bangor, ME) which we live right by.

 

[LordJezo]

<< nowadays, college girls are so slutty that you don't even need to spend $$ to nail em like the good ol days. Just spend 5 min with them at a party and get a little alcohol pumping into them and they'll be ready for docking maneuvers. It makes it easy for us guys. >>



Oh?
I must be going to the wrong parties/school then.

 

[TallBill]

ruby tuesdays is a fine place.. btw theres more to girls then just sex... at least for some of us... i personally would not want to just meet a drunk girl and have fun for a night.. but maybe thats just me... btw jezo, what school do you go to? i see yer in NJ, and im goin to NJIT next year

 

[AaronP]

what the hell is a ruby tuesday? ohh and for that age difference, take her to Chucky Cheese and then go to Shreck. Have her home by 10:00!

 

[LordJezo]

<< well i am 19 and she is 16. >>



Hoo haa.. young women.. she just may be enticed by your olderness (is that a word?) which may make things flow better for you





<< we have a ruby tuesday in the bangor mall (Bangor, ME) which we live right by. >>



Go there then. Its a happy atmosphere, and is not to much money.

 

[LordJezo]

<< what the hell is a ruby tuesday? ohh and for that age difference, take her to Chucky Cheese and then go to Shreck. Have her home by 10:00! >>



What the hell is a Ruby Tuesday? Those things are everywhere (north/east anyway) Man.. how old are you and where do you hail from?

 

[aUt0eXebat]

well this girl is not a slut and i dont want to get a peice of her, i just want to get to know her.... and her get to know me

 

[LordJezo]

<< ruby tuesdays is a fine place.. btw theres more to girls then just sex... at least for some of us... i personally would not want to just meet a drunk girl and have fun for a night.. but maybe thats just me... btw jezo, what school do you go to? i see yer in NJ, and im goin to NJIT next year >>



Rutgers, New Brunswick.
I looked into going to NJIT, but the part about being scared driving to and from the campus kind of irked me. I am not a racist, but center city Newark is a bit too much for me.

 

[aUt0eXebat]

oh yes, what a huge age difference. wow. shes not immature like most the girls her age

 

[AaronP]

I'm 23 and I live in Wisconsin, and I can tell you that in Wisconsin, MInnesota, Iowa, and norther ILL, there is no Ruby Tuesday. I have never even heard of em before.

 

[Shy]

<< well i am 19 and she is 16. we have a ruby tuesday in the bangor mall (Bangor, ME) which we live right by. >>



jesus, I had no idea there was a single Ruby Tuesday in Maine, and I've been living here for 13 years.

Heres some advice: take her down to Portland, go out somewhere in the old port, and catch Memento (if its still playing) at the Nickelodeon.

-Shy

 

[LordJezo]

<< I'm 23 and I live in Wisconsin, and I can tell you that in Wisconsin, MInnesota, Iowa, and norther ILL, there is no Ruby Tuesday. I have never even heard of em before. >>



I was to Wisconsin once for the collge curling championships.. besides that there wasn't much there.

 

[urameatball]

if you're 19 and she's 16...
just going out will do. last I remember, 16 year olds don't expect too much.