Originally posted by: Doboji
I think it all hinges on your belief in company #3... if you believe they will do well then you get the chance to be in on the ground floor of something with enormous potential. It's a gamble... if it takes off, you're in fantastic shape, if it doesnt... well better to take your shots while you're young.
Both #1 and Oracle... (which is an unhatched chicken)... are grind jobs. You shouldnt go in expecting to fire up through the ranks... expect to work very hard for a few years before you'll get the appreciation and impact I think most new workers want.
Avoid #2.... retail is a frustrating deadend.
You stall by simply explaining to the offer that you are very interested but indicate that you're considering several offers, and will simply need a little time to consider all factors. If they're not willing to give you the time, then you probably dont want to work there.
Don't wait forever for Oracle... it's a hope right now, not a reality.
As for the financial situation, once they've given you a number... tell them you were hoping for "xxxK" and then listen to their response. Don't wait for the offer letter... you want the number YOU want to be IN the offer letter.
-Max