Job dilemma. What would AT do? (cliffs at bottom)

Saint Nick

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As some of you may know, I was recently transferred from a part-time internship into a full-time programmer position at my place of employment. The job has been good, a little slow, but all in all, pretty good.

I was recently presented an opportunity to work at my girlfriend's grandparents construction company that specializes in concrete. I would be a project manager responsible for scheduling and coordinating jobs between the crews and site superintendents/general contractors.

Current job:
51k
Full health, vision, dental insurance
401k
No vacation until a year of service (Nov 2012 is when I'll get a week of vacation, Nov 2013 I would get two weeks)
10min commute

Prospective job:
51k - 55k
Health insurance
No 401k
Unlimited time off (mostly paid, some unpaid)
10min commute, will probably be given company vehicle and phone

Now, the only reason I'm even considering doing this is because there are certain aspects of my life that I would rather pursue, namely owning and operating a recording studio and performing with a touring band. This would essentially give me the best of both worlds. While the initial stresses of the job would be difficult, I will be given lots of guidance from the current project manager, as well as the company owners, on how to perform the job well. I already have some great ideas to help the crews out as far as scheduling (using IT solutions).

I have expressed to them that while I want to be a great employee to them by improving their current project management processes, I also have somewhat of a ulterior motive by playing with the band and getting my studio on line (which is already 50% there). The owner (girlfriend's grandpa) and I are meeting Saturday to discuss this.

I was wondering what AT thought of this? I know a lot of you are family guys with lots to lose with a job transition like this, but keep in mind that I am a single 25 year old with little debt. In the future, I may be able to become a partial owner in this business, which is another long term goal of mine (business ownership).

Cliffs:
* Working FT programming job with full benefits, pays 51k
* Opportunity to work project management job, pays at least 51k, maybe more, health insurance only
* No time off until Nov 2012 with current job, prospective job allows unlimited time off
* I'm considering this because the free time will allow me to begin building a recording studio as well as tour with a band this summer, potential to become part owner in the company in the future

UPDATE:
Hi folks. Just wanted to update this thread. I decided to not take the job.

The job was a new position for a sub contractor. In the OP, I made it sound as if I would be a PM for a very large company on large projects. I would only be responsible for keeping track of materials needed for each site, as well as, sending crews to the correct sites and scheduling the jobs in advance (approx a week out). Currently, all of this responsibility is tracked in a notebook by a crew leader who has more important duties. Jobs are not scheduled in advance, and the workers have to call crew leaders each day to see where they are going.

I'd be responsible for making the position as best as possible.

The "president" of the business is a help desk guy of 15 years who moved from Arizona to manage his dad's company (in the OP, i mentioned it was my girlfriend's grandparents company). In short, he is very incompetent and doesn't manage money well nor does he plan very well. He does not treat my g/f nor the other office employee very well. He also has multitudes of excuses why he can't show up to work and/or leave early.

I would have taken the position if he wasn't so incompetent. It was a drastic pay cut at $45k, but with the freedom it would have allowed me, that doesn't matter. I plan on talking to my supervisor later to see if I can move from full-time back to part-time for a while so that I can do the stuff I want.
 
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amdhunter

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Go where you are happy. You have the rest of your life to regret your decision.
 

DesiPower

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I would go for the the PM job, its more secure and in the IT field has a good demand once you are PMP (I am guessing you are in IT). Programming jobs are being shipped overseas but PM jobs are not and has a lot of growth potential. But there are downsides too, its can be very demanding and frustrating.
 

FoBoT

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i'll express my feelings with this dilbert cartoon
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Saint Nick

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I would go for the the PM job, its more secure and in the IT field has a good demand once you are PMP (I am guessing you are in IT). Programming jobs are being shipped overseas but PM jobs are not and has a lot of growth potential. But there are downsides too, its can be very demanding and frustrating.
Are you familiar with the PMP certification? Is it something worth looking into, or is it just a "resume builder"?
 

lxskllr

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What kind of construction PM job allows unlimited time off? Sounds like BS to me.
 

Zargon

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the PTO at the current gig absolutely blows man

if you think you will enjoy the new job go for it
 

Saint Nick

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What kind of construction PM job allows unlimited time off? Sounds like BS to me.
As far as the whole "unlimited time off" thing goes...their HR guy said it had to be within reason. If I was going to be gone for a few days out of a week, no issue. But if I wanted to leave for extended periods (maybe a week or more), I would need to have someone cover for a few days.

Sorry for the ninja edits.
 
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DesiPower

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Are you familiar with the PMP certification? Is it something worth looking into, or is it just a "resume builder"?

yes I am and Oh no, its not just a resume builder, its a must, big companies will not hire you until you have one, and once you have one, you can easily make 100k+

*Edit* - I just read the cliff, all inputs are based on the assumption that you are in the Information Technology field. Disregard everything I said if you are not...
 

lxskllr

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I would have to answer that with "it's a family owned company". Shit, even the current head boss is barely even in the office. Company is doing great, however.

Maybe it's just different than what I'm used to. I've worked around highway construction, and those guys get up at 5am, drive to who knows where, and stay until 5pm+. They wrangle subcontractors, fight with the state, and get their asses chewed when things aren't on schedule. They don't look like they do much when you you walk in the trailer, but there isn't enough money in the world to get me to take that job.
 

Saint Nick

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yes I am and Oh no, its not just a resume builder, its a must, big companies will not hire you until you have one, and once you have one, you can easily make 100k+

*Edit* - I just read the cliff, all inputs are based on the assumption that you are in the Information Technology field. Disregard everything I said if you are not...
Yes, you read correctly. I am in the IT field now. I will check out the PMP certs. Probably would be beneficial for me anyhow.
 

Saint Nick

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Maybe it's just different than what I'm used to. I've worked around highway construction, and those guys get up at 5am, drive to who knows where, and stay until 5pm+. They wrangle subcontractors, fight with the state, and get their asses chewed when things aren't on schedule. They don't look like they do much when you you walk in the trailer, but there isn't enough money in the world to get me to take that job.
Well, I know the company has quit doing Mavis jobs (something to do with government work? can't remember) because they were getting boned. Right now, the company is focusing on small commercial and residential jobs. The company is the area's go-to for fast food lots, school parking lots, etc. I think the company is moving away from government work (roads, highways, interstates).
 

Capt Caveman

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Are you familiar with the PMP certification? Is it something worth looking into, or is it just a "resume builder"?

If you don't have a lot of PM experience, yes it's very helpful however, you need 4500 hours of project experience to be able to take the test. However, in the meantime, I would recommend taking a class on it(you need 35 hours for the test).

What kind of company doesn't allow vacation til after a year of service? I can't work for a place unless they offer at least 4 weeks off the bat. My current company has unlimited vacation time.

If you plan on marrying this girl then yes, I would take the new opportunity. Can't imagine how it would be like if the relationship ends.
 

PingSpike

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With unlimited time off, mostly paid the answer is clear. Take the second job while continuing to work the first.
 

Saint Nick

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If you don't have a lot of PM experience, yes it's very helpful however, you need 4500 hours of project experience to be able to take the test. However, in the meantime, I would recommend taking a class on it(you need 35 hours for the test).

What kind of company doesn't allow vacation til after a year of service? I can't work for a place unless they offer at least 4 weeks off the bat. My current company has unlimited vacation time.

If you plan on marrying this girl then yes, I would take the new opportunity. Can't imagine how it would be like if the relationship ends.
The relationship is a non issue. We have a great relationship and yeah, I do plan on proposing eventually.
 
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sounds like a good switch. with programming experience, wont be too hard to get back into that field later if you liked it better. how much does your current job match your 401k and what are you contributing. that may be a non-factor depending. paid PTO is huge and is what would swing it for me.
 

Saint Nick

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sounds like a good switch. with programming experience, wont be too hard to get back into that field later if you liked it better. how much does your current job match your 401k and what are you contributing. that may be a non-factor depending. paid PTO is huge and is what would swing it for me.
Current company matches up to $150 per paycheck. There are 26 pay periods per year, so it comes out to $4000 (I know 26 x $150 = $3900 but I'm guessing they rounded up).

If I put in $4000, I get $4000. If I put in $4500, I get $4000.
 

lord_emperor

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If you get manager approval, take unlimited vacation time.

OK so take the job and make your entire life an intricate plot to make your manager sign a form giving you forever paid time off. I'm talking disappearing-reappearing ink here.
 

dabuddha

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As some of you may know, I was recently transferred from a part-time internship into a full-time programmer position at my place of employment. The job has been good, a little slow, but all in all, pretty good.

I was recently presented an opportunity to work at my girlfriend's grandparents construction company that specializes in concrete. I would be a project manager responsible for scheduling and coordinating jobs between the crews and site superintendents/general contractors.

Current job:
51k
Full health, vision, dental insurance
401k
No vacation until a year of service (Nov 2012 is when I'll get a week of vacation, Nov 2013 I would get two weeks)
10min commute

Prospective job:
51k - 55k
Health insurance
No 401k
Unlimited time off (mostly paid, some unpaid)
10min commute, will probably be given company vehicle and phone

Now, the only reason I'm even considering doing this is because there are certain aspects of my life that I would rather pursue, namely owning and operating a recording studio and performing with a touring band. This would essentially give me the best of both worlds. While the initial stresses of the job would be difficult, I will be given lots of guidance from the current project manager, as well as the company owners, on how to perform the job well. I already have some great ideas to help the crews out as far as scheduling (using IT solutions).

I have expressed to them that while I want to be a great employee to them by improving their current project management processes, I also have somewhat of a ulterior motive by playing with the band and getting my studio on line (which is already 50% there). The owner (girlfriend's grandpa) and I are meeting Saturday to discuss this.

I was wondering what AT thought of this? I know a lot of you are family guys with lots to lose with a job transition like this, but keep in mind that I am a single 25 year old with little debt. In the future, I may be able to become a partial owner in this business, which is another long term goal of mine (business ownership).

Cliffs:
* Working FT programming job with full benefits, pays 51k
* Opportunity to work project management job, pays at least 51k, maybe more, health insurance only
* No time off until Nov 2012 with current job, prospective job allows unlimited time off
* I'm considering this because the free time will allow me to begin building a recording studio as well as tour with a band this summer, potential to become part owner in the company in the future
Given the bolded, I'd pass. What happens when you break up with your gf?
 

Saint Nick

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Given the bolded, I'd pass. What happens when you break up with your gf?
Read up...we've been in a solid relationship for four years and I do plan on eventually proposing, she knows this too :p Pretty much a non-issue.