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It's official, I'm going to be a father.

L

Lucky

Lifer
from this thread.


she told me last night she saw a family planning center and got tested. she's pregnant. Keeping the child. I'm going to be a father. I don't know whether to be sad, happy, excited, or scared. 😕
 
Congrats I suppose. Planned or not, it's time to take responsibility. This isn't about you or her anymore.

Edit: BTW, I too became a father rather unexpectedly, and I love every minute of it.
 
Have you seen the test result yourself?

Well, what you do here is going to make or break you. Hope you'll take the responsible part and support her emotionally, and support the baby emotionally and financially upon delivery.

It isn't for you to be sad, but it's okay to be scared . . . for as long as fear does not translate to irresponsible behaviour. Good luck!
 
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Congrats I suppose. Planned or not, it's time to take responsibility. This isn't about you or her anymore.
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I realize that. She gave me a choice last night...to walk away from her and the baby if I wanted to. I couldn't do it.
 
I don't know what you should be either. I know I would be scared out of my MIND about being a dad at 24. That being said, good luck and congratulations! Don't make any rash decisions right now. You have months to go before the baby is on the scene, so don't do anything crazy until you have time to think it through and talk it over with the girl.

R
 
Originally posted by: Lucky
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Congrats I suppose. Planned or not, it's time to take responsibility. This isn't about you or her anymore.
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I realize that. She gave me a choice last night...to walk away from her and the baby if I wanted to. I couldn't do it.
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Good man 🙂
 
Oh man.. congrats, I guess.

My girlfriend is on the pill, and I make sure she takes it everyday at the same time.... and although I'm pretty confident in it, I've heard horror stories....

I am not sure what we would do. We would be forced to make some serious decisions.

Good luck.
 
Originally posted by: Lucky
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Congrats I suppose. Planned or not, it's time to take responsibility. This isn't about you or her anymore.
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I realize that. She gave me a choice last night...to walk away from her and the baby if I wanted to. I couldn't do it.
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Good for you... This is the first step in making sure the kid will grow up right.

R

 
Enjoy as many quiet nights as you can bro...
Soon your nights will be filled with pleasant crying sounds and pooping smells

Seriously, congratulations...You are a 'Lucky' man indeed !!!! 😀
 
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Congrats I suppose. Planned or not, it's time to take responsibility. This isn't about you or her anymore.

Edit: BTW, I too became a father rather unexpectedly, and I love every minute of it.
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Don't assume that this is a bad thing Lucky, it good turn out to be good for you.
 
Originally posted by: Lucky
from this thread.


she told me last night she saw a family planning center and got tested. she's pregnant. Keeping the child. I'm going to be a father. I don't know whether to be sad, happy, excited, or scared. 😕
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many congrats! be happy, excited AND scared!
 
Originally posted by: Lucky
from this thread.


she told me last night she saw a family planning center and got tested. she's pregnant. Keeping the child. I'm going to be a father. I don't know whether to be sad, happy, excited, or scared. 😕
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Congrats!

I'm sure the child will laugh when you disclose a new sexual position and pain pills were the root cause of his/her creation.
 
Originally posted by: Lucky
from this thread.


she told me last night she saw a family planning center and got tested. she's pregnant. Keeping the child. I'm going to be a father. I don't know whether to be sad, happy, excited, or scared. 😕
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In the other thread you mention that you wished you knew this girl better.. how long have you been going out, and what kind of person is she? Do you see a future with her (even if it's unplanned?), and is she potential marriage material?

And... How do you plan to explain someday to your kid that he/she is the result of an experiment with a new sexual position gone bad?
 
Have you seen the test result yourself?
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No. 😛 However, I told her in casual conversation before I started dating her that I would demand a paternity test before signing birth papers in the event I ever had a kid before marriage, and I don't intend to change that. I think it's impossible that she could be pregnant with someone else's kid (we've spent almost 24/7 together for the last couple weeks)....but I think it's a smart thing to do regardless.

Well, what you do here is going to make or break you. Hope you'll take the responsible part and support her emotionally, and support the baby emotionally and financially upon delivery.
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I don't intend to do anything else. I've told her that regardless of where our relationship ends...I want to be a good father and raise this baby better than my father raised me.

<sigh> I still don't know how to tell my mom. Merry Christmas mom, your'e gonna be a grandma! 😛
 
In the other thread you mention that you wished you knew this girl better.. how long have you been going out, and what kind of person is she? Do you see a future with her (even if it's unplanned?), and is she potential marriage material?
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She definitely IS...but I've only known her for a couple months and have only dated her for three weeks. I don't know where we will end up.


And... How do you plan to explain someday to your kid that he/she is the result of an experiment with a new sexual position gone bad?
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I can't change the past. If I raise the kid well hopefully that won't be an issue.
 
Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Congrats I suppose. Planned or not, it's time to take responsibility. This isn't about you or her anymore.

Edit: BTW, I too became a father rather unexpectedly, and I love every minute of it.
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I second that wholeheartedly. I became a single mother in an unplanned situation and I also love EVERY minute of being a mom. The fear and feeling unprepared are totally appropriate, but when the baby comes (which, personally, i'm VERY glad is the choice), somehow you'll be ready and you'll love it more than you've ever loved anything/anyone else.

Congrats 🙂

-TekChik
 
Originally posted by: Lucky
from this thread.


she told me last night she saw a family planning center and got tested. she's pregnant. Keeping the child. I'm going to be a father. I don't know whether to be sad, happy, excited, or scared. 😕
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you should be all of those exept sad
once again kids are the best
 
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