it finally happened

[pontifex]

my sister's boyfriend beat her up today. apparently they were fighting over money.
i've posted about this idiot before. everyone saw it coming but my sister. the sad thing is its not the 1st time something like this has happened. hopefully she learned her lesson this time. if anything, she needs to get out of there because of the kid she had with this jackass.

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[KLin]

So you post about it on a public message board. Nice.

 

[Journer]

Originally posted by: pontifex
my sister's boyfriend beat her up today. apparently they were fighting over money.
i've posted about this idiot before. everyone saw it coming but my sister. the sad thing is its not the 1st time something like this has happened. hopefully she learned her lesson this time. if anything, she needs to get out of there because of the kid she had with this jackass.

beat him up? call cops? remove sister from current living situation?

 

[jlbenedict]

Time to whip his ass now, right?

 

[Cuda1447]

it finally happened, but its not the first time something like that had happened?

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Journer

Originally posted by: pontifex
my sister's boyfriend beat her up today. apparently they were fighting over money.
i've posted about this idiot before. everyone saw it coming but my sister. the sad thing is its not the 1st time something like this has happened. hopefully she learned her lesson this time. if anything, she needs to get out of there because of the kid she had with this jackass.

beat him up? call cops? remove sister from current living situation?

she called cops and is coming home with my parents.

 

[Ika]

What happened in the past?

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
it finally happened, but its not the first time something like that had happened?

yes, there's a difference between something like this and this same thing

 

[imported_LoKe]

Sometimes you have to draw the line. Any time I see a guy hit a girl, I get involved. It's not my place, but I can't help it. You let him hit your sister, more than once without doing a damn thing?

 

[BlancoNino]

Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Time to whip his ass now, right?

I think it's "whoop" his ass. I'll give you an A for the effort for trying to sound tough, but you still fail.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: LoKe
Sometimes you have to draw the line. Any time I see a guy hit a girl, I get involved. It's not my place, but I can't help it. You let him hit your sister, more than once without doing a damn thing?

i didn't let him do anything. wtf am i going to do anyway?

 

[Cattlegod]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
it finally happened, but its not the first time something like that had happened?

yes, there's a difference between something like this and this same thing

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: Cattlegod

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: Cuda1447
it finally happened, but its not the first time something like that had happened?

yes, there's a difference between something like this and this same thing

there's a difference between "something like this" and "this same thing"

happy now?

 

[isekii]

Wow, is she your older sister or younger.

If something like that happened to my sister. That guy would've gotten an ass whooping.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: isekii
Wow, is she your older sister or younger.

If something like that happened to my sister. That guy would've gotten an ass whooping.

younger by 2 years

 

[imported_LoKe]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: LoKe
Sometimes you have to draw the line. Any time I see a guy hit a girl, I get involved. It's not my place, but I can't help it. You let him hit your sister, more than once without doing a damn thing?

i didn't let him do anything. wtf am i going to do anyway?

Curb stomp?

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: LoKe

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: LoKe
Sometimes you have to draw the line. Any time I see a guy hit a girl, I get involved. It's not my place, but I can't help it. You let him hit your sister, more than once without doing a damn thing?

i didn't let him do anything. wtf am i going to do anyway?

Curb stomp?

yeah, i'd prefer to stay out of jail

 

[SSP]

Thats great pontifex. Why don't you say "I told you so" to her face when you see her. :roll:

Beat his ass.

 

[MrsBugi]

There is no excuse for partner abuse, whether it is the man hitting the woman, woman hitting the man, man hitting the man, woman hitting the woman, etc.

I am sorry to hear about what happend with your sister, and I hope that she has the strength and courage to leave her abusive partner.

I am not sure of the magnitude of the abuse, but here are some websites that you might want to pass along to her:

Leaving abuse

Deciding to leave

A plan for leaving an abusive relationship

Stages of leaving an abusive relationship

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: SSP
Thats great pontifex. Why don't you say "I told you so" to her face when you see her. :roll:

Beat his ass.

this forum is great. no matter the seriousness of the post, there's always plenty of people to come in and be assholes about it.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: BlancoNino

Originally posted by: jlbenedict
Time to whip his ass now, right?

I think it's "whoop" his ass. I'll give you an A for the effort for trying to sound tough, but you still fail.

:thumbsup: No, kidding. Whip his ass sounds more like foreplay. :laugh:

 

[AUMM]

how badly did he beat her? is she ok?

 

[SketchMaster]

Originally posted by: pontifex
i didn't let him do anything. wtf am i going to do anyway?

Yes you did. By doing nothing.

If you haven't talked with your sister now is the time. She needs to get away from that guy, if not for her than for the sake of the child. If you can't go toe-to-toe with the guy it doesn't mean nothing can be done. Go to a police station and talk with someone there about what can be done for her.

I'm a very passive guy but apparently I'm VERY protective of my family. Once at a hunted house there was a part where kids were throwing hubcaps at the floor to scare you. One missed my sister by an inch, I almost lost it.

DO NOT be afraid to stand up for your Sister.

 

[pontifex]

Originally posted by: AUMM
how badly did he beat her? is she ok?

i don't know.

 

[Stuxnet]

Originally posted by: pontifex

Originally posted by: LoKe
Sometimes you have to draw the line. Any time I see a guy hit a girl, I get involved. It's not my place, but I can't help it. You let him hit your sister, more than once without doing a damn thing?

i didn't let him do anything. wtf am i going to do anyway?

Oh I don't know... be a brother perhaps? You don't have to go over there and shoot him to step up to the plate. At the very least you should have a good man-to-man about 2 inches from his face.