ToastedMilk
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If a woman really loves a guy, she'll say yes to his proposal even if the ring he gives her came from a supermarket quarter machine. It's the thought that counts and if the woman won't accept it just because it's not a five-thousand dollar ring, it's just a reflection of how superficial she is.
When my then-boyfriend/now-husband proposed, we were just starting out together and money was super tight. He bought a small 5-diamond band (about $150 if I recall) and I wore that until our 5th wedding anniversary. I still wear it on a chain around my neck because it was the thought and was given with love.
At 5 years he surprised me with a really beautiful 1/2 carat ring which I've worn ever since. I love it and doubt I'll ever want anything else. The style is very me, and I'm not afraid to wear it out for fear someone will try to cut my finger off for it.
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I'll never understand the demand of *bling* and I think the Cinderella fairy tale should die already. If a guy buys you a ring based on good intentions, a show of love, and what he can afford then you should accept it and STFU if you really love him. If it's just god awful ugly then you should try to find a comprimise.
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