Well.. Here's what I did. First I wanna see flash stuff sometimes so I created bat files. One to go to the Macromed subdirectory and rename it to something like Macromed.goat. Then I created a second one and made it rename Macromed.goat Macromed.
Then I went to my hosts file found in windows\system32\drivers\etc and put the following line:
0.0.0.0 download.macromedia.com activex.microsoft.com active.macromedia.com
First of course I made sure flash was loaded and running so I could see
www.badgerbadgerbadger.com
Then I did the rename bat file. And no flash to harass me while I look at web sites. Before all of this I tried various settings of 'prompt for install of activex stuff' and similar settings within IIE but it had no effect. Note that there can be no browsers running when you run the rename bat.
BTW I spend a lot of time browsing in my job and things that move while I am trying to read articles and such make me postal somtimes. I wonder if the people who pay to have that stuff done and stuck in web pages realize how much it bothers people, almost as much as popups and if the taliban ever take over here I hope they take the creators of popups along with the email spammers to the socker field for a little sahira justice.