Is saving yourself for marriage usually because...

[HannibalX]

Originally posted by: Mahaguru
I was a virgin before I got married. Before I got married in college, I used to have girls beg me to have sex with them. I would get atleast 6-10 calls per week from girls who wanted to "hang out" or "watch a movie together because their roommate was gone", or some other similar excuse to just get me alone with them. I am talking about girls who were at least a 9, if not a 10. Ok well, some were 8s also, but just a few. A few times, I would have 2 of these girls call me just because they wanted me so bad. I would always say no, because my mind was clear and my conscious was alive. I was saving myself for the special someone I would marry, and I considered "hanging out" cheating on her. Even though I had never met her before, I knew I would meet her some day. And after all those years, I am glad I did it. Just to be clear though, most calls were on the weekends, with a few on weekdays.

But college days were rediculous. I was the envy of all my friends that girls would call me for "hanging out", rather than the opposite. This not only made my male friends envious, but also my female friends, some of whom flat out asked me to have sex with them because the attraction of other girls attracted them to me. Again, I would say no.

Good man. Plenty of young men have litterally ruined their lives because they end up with kids before they turned 20 or had a chance to live at all or choose a path in life.

 

[zinfamous]

Originally posted by: Mahaguru
I was a virgin before I got married. Before I got married in college, I used to have girls beg me to have sex with them. I would get atleast 6-10 calls per week from girls who wanted to "hang out" or "watch a movie together because their roommate was gone", or some other similar excuse to just get me alone with them. I am talking about girls who were at least a 9, if not a 10. Ok well, some were 8s also, but just a few. A few times, I would have 2 of these girls call me just because they wanted me so bad. I would always say no, because my mind was clear and my conscious was alive. I was saving myself for the special someone I would marry, and I considered "hanging out" cheating on her. Even though I had never met her before, I knew I would meet her some day. And after all those years, I am glad I did it. Just to be clear though, most calls were on the weekends, with a few on weekdays.

But college days were rediculous. I was the envy of all my friends that girls would call me for "hanging out", rather than the opposite. This not only made my male friends envious, but also my female friends, some of whom flat out asked me to have sex with them because the attraction of other girls attracted them to me. Again, I would say no.

suuuuuuuure

 

[classy]

I wish i had of waited.

 

[kstu]

Originally posted by: classy
I wish i had of waited.

I wish you had of gone to school.

 

[classy]

Originally posted by: kstu

Originally posted by: classy
I wish i had of waited.

I wish you had of gone to school.

LOL Good one

 

[SparkyJJO]

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
I'm sure if I went to parties and what not I'm sure it wouldn't take too long. I am saving myself for that one special girl whom God has planned for me in my life-- and it is going to be worth the wait I'm sure

Yeah...good luck with that.

Worked out quite well for my brother. And two of my friends. And my cousins. And my parents too. And some other friends. And some other people I know. Need me to go on?

 

[HannibalX]

Originally posted by: SparkyJJO

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
I'm sure if I went to parties and what not I'm sure it wouldn't take too long. I am saving myself for that one special girl whom God has planned for me in my life-- and it is going to be worth the wait I'm sure

Yeah...good luck with that.

Worked out quite well for my brother. And two of my friends. And my cousins. And my parents too. And some other friends. And some other people I know. Need me to go on?

Worked for me too. I left the God part out, but either way it's the smart thing to do - doesn't matter if God told you to wait or you waited on your own.

 

[BudAshes]

Originally posted by: Pale Rider

Originally posted by: SparkyJJO

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
I'm sure if I went to parties and what not I'm sure it wouldn't take too long. I am saving myself for that one special girl whom God has planned for me in my life-- and it is going to be worth the wait I'm sure

Yeah...good luck with that.

Worked out quite well for my brother. And two of my friends. And my cousins. And my parents too. And some other friends. And some other people I know. Need me to go on?

Worked for me too. I left the God part out, but either way it's the smart thing to do - doesn't matter if God told you to wait or you waited on your own.

Except one means you are insane, and the other means you're just prude.

 

[ja1484]

From another thread:

Originally posted by: ja1484

Originally posted by: NightDarker
What are your guys' thoughts on limerence? I read somewhere (I can't find it) that stated the "line of limerence" is 18 months. So, apparently, after 18 months you get fed up with each other.

I think its interesting. My previous relationship lasted about 17 months or so, it might be true!

"Love" as we know it modernly in the west is a cute institution of some religions and western society.

Everything in our nature speaks to other tendencies that don't revolve around monogamous relationships. Now that people are getting those pesky fake morals from the god damned Dark Ages out of the way these days, we're seeing these traits displayed more and more openly. This is why traditional institutions like waiting til marriage for sex, and never getting divorced, are crumbling with gusto. People are more or less tired of pretending these concepts have some logical basis in reality and have realized they no longer have to to keep the powers that be happy.

This has pissed off the old guard of "morality" (read: Falwell/Limbaugh type assholes), because they MUCH preferred the old system where you kept your cheating on your spouse secret and then looked down your nose at people who were exposed as doing so, and only the rich were allowed to do it. But that's just because people with this mindset like to control people and generally be holier-than-thou without actually taking any action to make themselves more impressive people. After all, raising your stock in the world takes work...it's a lot easier just to yell a lot about your beliefs and work Jesus and/or the Bible in there somehow.

What I'm getting at, in a roundabout fashion, is that we were never intended as nature's creatures to engage in this monogamous HORSE. SHIT., and the concept of "love = commitment" was pretty much cooked up back in the day by the church and social elites as a way of controlling the lower classes.

Thus, is it any wonder we get into a relationship and then find ourselves 12 months later wanting to fuck someone else? Of course not! The biological imperative to reproduce is designed that way. You get married to raise kids, but sexual attraction is just about making kids. One's a social institution, the other comes from biology.

It hardly seems strange that they're at odds with one another.

 

[SparkyJJO]

To put it nicely, that whole post is utterly full of crap. You go to my parents, my grandparents, or friends, etc, and try and tell them that. It won't fly.

:roll:

 

[HannibalX]

Originally posted by: BudAshes

Originally posted by: Pale Rider

Originally posted by: SparkyJJO

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
I'm sure if I went to parties and what not I'm sure it wouldn't take too long. I am saving myself for that one special girl whom God has planned for me in my life-- and it is going to be worth the wait I'm sure

Yeah...good luck with that.

Worked out quite well for my brother. And two of my friends. And my cousins. And my parents too. And some other friends. And some other people I know. Need me to go on?

Worked for me too. I left the God part out, but either way it's the smart thing to do - doesn't matter if God told you to wait or you waited on your own.

Except one means you are insane, and the other means you're just prude.

Your words mean nothing. Don't envy those who actually have a plan for their life.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: SparkyJJO

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
I'm sure if I went to parties and what not I'm sure it wouldn't take too long. I am saving myself for that one special girl whom God has planned for me in my life-- and it is going to be worth the wait I'm sure

Yeah...good luck with that.

Worked out quite well for my brother. And two of my friends. And my cousins. And my parents too. And some other friends. And some other people I know. Need me to go on?

Are you Gamingphreek too?

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: zinfamous

Originally posted by: Mahaguru
I was a virgin before I got married. Before I got married in college, I used to have girls beg me to have sex with them. I would get atleast 6-10 calls per week from girls who wanted to "hang out" or "watch a movie together because their roommate was gone", or some other similar excuse to just get me alone with them. I am talking about girls who were at least a 9, if not a 10. Ok well, some were 8s also, but just a few. A few times, I would have 2 of these girls call me just because they wanted me so bad. I would always say no, because my mind was clear and my conscious was alive. I was saving myself for the special someone I would marry, and I considered "hanging out" cheating on her. Even though I had never met her before, I knew I would meet her some day. And after all those years, I am glad I did it. Just to be clear though, most calls were on the weekends, with a few on weekdays.

But college days were rediculous. I was the envy of all my friends that girls would call me for "hanging out", rather than the opposite. This not only made my male friends envious, but also my female friends, some of whom flat out asked me to have sex with them because the attraction of other girls attracted them to me. Again, I would say no.

suuuuuuuure

Yeah that's the 'story' people that didn't really do anything in college like to tell. I like at reunions the guys that everyone knew didn't tap crap start talking about back in the day how many girls they were tapping.

Most guys outside celebrity like ones (President, Quarterback, actor, etc) will have at most 2-3 chicks that have just been gagging for it and they said no. I have been there, when I was younger and just starting to study biology + having my mom in OB/GYN nursing at the time, I would make out and stuff but I was afraid to have sex...that passed pretty quick around 17ish.

Looking back it's a bit embarrassing and I have ran in to a few of those chicks out and about. We were friendly, but I know in the back of their mind they were wondering 'when the fuck did he figure out a woman?'.

 

[SparkyJJO]

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: SparkyJJO

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
I'm sure if I went to parties and what not I'm sure it wouldn't take too long. I am saving myself for that one special girl whom God has planned for me in my life-- and it is going to be worth the wait I'm sure

Yeah...good luck with that.

Worked out quite well for my brother. And two of my friends. And my cousins. And my parents too. And some other friends. And some other people I know. Need me to go on?

Are you Gamingphreek too?

Nope, but apparently he and I share similar views about these things.

 

[spaceman]

uh no, back in the day i met some hot virgins who were hot and virginly

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Casawi

Originally posted by: Xavier434

Originally posted by: Casawi
I am not a virgin but I think it would have been a great experience to share with someone special. I've had sex with several girls, and now I met someone (who I think is the one) from Morocco where girls almost always save themselves for marriage. I feel that it is somewhat unfair, I don't deserve her as much...I don't really how to explain it, but I wish I was a virgin for her... but again that sex from 16-24 was great stuff man ...lol
Now I know I am not getting any until we're married, if we do.

Shakespeare hates your emo poetry.

WHo the F is Shakespeare.

The guy whose parents use his money to buy him a condo sight unseen in Morocco.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek

Perhaps you could give me a reference as to what you are talking about. And I never said the we are any more/less sinners after marriage.

Also I don't appreciate you flaming me-- I haven't said a single negative thing about any person in this thread, and I would appreciate the same respect.

-Kevin

I am sorry, but I have a huge problem with Christians (and any zealot) that spews the I am better than thou doctrine and they don't even know WTF they are regurgitating.

I personally feel a child should not be able to pick a religion or be influenced by one until they are 12/13.

The majority of the followers out there in any religion have Santa Claus syndrome.

I think sexuality in the Bible was skewed by wanting taxes/tithes/virgins/etc.


anyway...if you really want to understand the bible read the history of the day at the same time. Contrast and compare what was happening in history vs the 'story'. Think about the financial reach of each character vs the 'story'. Think about the rules given and then what each character did in the 'story'.

I have found there is tons of contradictions. Also I have come to a conclusion that the islamic, christian, jewish, buddist, etc faiths are all very intertwined and probably sprang out of egyptian beliefs...but such discussion is not suited for general forums as too many of the brainwashed just barf dogma.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Svnla
In other countries, it is a culture requirement for the woman to be a virgin. Yes, there are highly educated and attractive women that saving themselves for marriage because they chose to, not because they couldn't.

You can bash or mock it but with the US rate of divorce <over 50%>, maybe we could learn something there.

what about the men in those countries?

 

[kinev]

Originally posted by: loki8481
I had a guy friend who was saving himself for marriage... he was reasonably attractive (not my type, but I've seen him get hit-on in bars and I see the way some of my straight female friends look at him), but came from a religious (catholic) family.

I'm pretty sure he broke down when he was 28, though. I don't know for sure, because I don't talk about sex with my breeder friends, it's just weird and awkward on both sides of the conversation, but if I had to guess, I'm near positive that he hooked up with a mutual friend's sister.

Quoted for ban-age.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: kinev

Originally posted by: loki8481
I had a guy friend who was saving himself for marriage... he was reasonably attractive (not my type, but I've seen him get hit-on in bars and I see the way some of my straight female friends look at him), but came from a religious (catholic) family.

I'm pretty sure he broke down when he was 28, though. I don't know for sure, because I don't talk about sex with my breeder friends, it's just weird and awkward on both sides of the conversation, but if I had to guess, I'm near positive that he hooked up with a mutual friend's sister.

Quoted for ban-age.

That's a bit messed up...most are not considering breeding when having straight sex.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: SparkyJJO

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: SparkyJJO

Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

Originally posted by: Gamingphreek
I'm sure if I went to parties and what not I'm sure it wouldn't take too long. I am saving myself for that one special girl whom God has planned for me in my life-- and it is going to be worth the wait I'm sure

Yeah...good luck with that.

Worked out quite well for my brother. And two of my friends. And my cousins. And my parents too. And some other friends. And some other people I know. Need me to go on?

Are you Gamingphreek too?

Nope, but apparently he and I share similar views about these things.

ok...just a word to the wise...until you have been there and done it, you are just working on hearsay.

Unless of course your virgin ass was running the video.

I am sure those dudes could also run down every name and description of each chick they banged too.

 

[Jeff7]

Originally posted by: kinev

Originally posted by: loki8481
I had a guy friend who was saving himself for marriage... he was reasonably attractive (not my type, but I've seen him get hit-on in bars and I see the way some of my straight female friends look at him), but came from a religious (catholic) family.

I'm pretty sure he broke down when he was 28, though. I don't know for sure, because I don't talk about sex with my breeder friends, it's just weird and awkward on both sides of the conversation, but if I had to guess, I'm near positive that he hooked up with a mutual friend's sister.

Quoted for ban-age.

Bannage? Why?

 

[Corbett]

Originally posted by: TruePaige
The New Testament did not invalidate the old testament.

You're right. But you obivously dont know the differences between the two.

 

[Corbett]

Originally posted by: Mahaguru
I was a virgin before I got married. Before I got married in college, I used to have girls beg me to have sex with them. I would get atleast 6-10 calls per week from girls who wanted to "hang out" or "watch a movie together because their roommate was gone", or some other similar excuse to just get me alone with them. I am talking about girls who were at least a 9, if not a 10. Ok well, some were 8s also, but just a few. A few times, I would have 2 of these girls call me just because they wanted me so bad. I would always say no, because my mind was clear and my conscious was alive. I was saving myself for the special someone I would marry, and I considered "hanging out" cheating on her. Even though I had never met her before, I knew I would meet her some day. And after all those years, I am glad I did it. Just to be clear though, most calls were on the weekends, with a few on weekdays.

But college days were rediculous. I was the envy of all my friends that girls would call me for "hanging out", rather than the opposite. This not only made my male friends envious, but also my female friends, some of whom flat out asked me to have sex with them because the attraction of other girls attracted them to me. Again, I would say no.

EDIT: I am just joking. Sorry. No girls ever called me, except telemarketers. But I was a virgin before marriage. Please don't ban me

haha, this is hillarious.

 

[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: Jeff7

Originally posted by: kinev

Originally posted by: loki8481
I had a guy friend who was saving himself for marriage... he was reasonably attractive (not my type, but I've seen him get hit-on in bars and I see the way some of my straight female friends look at him), but came from a religious (catholic) family.

I'm pretty sure he broke down when he was 28, though. I don't know for sure, because I don't talk about sex with my breeder friends, it's just weird and awkward on both sides of the conversation, but if I had to guess, I'm near positive that he hooked up with a mutual friend's sister.

Quoted for ban-age.

Bannage? Why?

probably not really looking to have him banned but if that thread read 'my ass riding friends' or 'corn holing friends' etc it'd be a disaster.