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Is my friend crazy?

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Eeezee

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I have this female friend. She's been dating this really nice guy for a few months, but suddenly he doesn't want to see her anymore. He lives on the other side of the country, but he won't give a definite reason.

I know this fellow, and he almost definitely is not cheating on her. He's been staying with her until winter break is over (they're in college, he's a grad student), and then he's moving back. Apparently he likes to hug, kiss, and cuddle, but he won't hit it!

Can anyone identify what is wrong with this person?

Edit: He has hit it many times before, but won't hit it again!
 
doesn't want to get too attached since he lives on the other side of the country?

girl did something he didn't like and maybe doesn't want to embarass her or hurt her feelings?

he's gay?
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
I have this female friend. She's been dating this really nice guy for a few months, but suddenly he doesn't want to see her anymore. He lives on the other side of the country, but he won't give a definite reason.

I know this fellow, and he almost definitely is not cheating on her. He's been staying with her until winter break is over (they're in college, he's a grad student), and then he's moving back. Apparently he likes to hug, kiss, and cuddle, but he won't hit it!

Can anyone identify what is wrong with this person?
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What difference does it make? He's all but gone.

 
Basically he's not hitting it for whatever reason. I don't know what to read into that.

As for the breaking up, if it's only been a few months, maybe he realized he doesn't want to put up with her ******. Especially if its going to be long distance...all the bad and almost none of the good.
 
I'd say that he probably thinks that fornication is wrong based on his religious or personal beliefs. There is nothing wrong with that. However, he should be man enough to discuss this point/sexuallity with an SO.
 
How old is he? Maybe he just wasn't ready to hit it yet. I know I was a bit of a late bloomer. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 18, and not cause of a lack of opportunity, I just didn't feel comfortable until a certain stage of my life. I feel comfortable now, and have fun with my g/f on a regular basis 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Elderly Newt
maybe he doesn't believe in pre-marital hitting it?
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He's already done pre-marital hitting. Many a time. With her. Sorry, I forgot to mention that. Edit has been made

'Ghey' might be the best answer thus far
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: Elderly Newt
maybe he doesn't believe in pre-marital hitting it?
Click to expand...

He's already done pre-marital hitting. Many a time. With her. Sorry, I forgot to mention that. Edit has been made

'Ghey' might be the best answer thus far
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In this case then I would say it's an emotional thing. He probably wants to make things easier on himself (and her) if he knows he's going to be leaving and maybe not seeing her again.
 
Originally posted by: Eeezee
Originally posted by: Elderly Newt
maybe he doesn't believe in pre-marital hitting it?
Click to expand...

He's already done pre-marital hitting. Many a time. With her. Sorry, I forgot to mention that. Edit has been made

'Ghey' might be the best answer thus far
Click to expand...



O umm mabe he he's having second thoughts about the whole thing
 
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