is it wrong to date a girl...

[AdamDuritz99]

Well, there's this girl that i've known since like my sophmore year, and we've never became "friends". we just see each other once in a while and will talk. kinda like the whole are you going to ask me at feeling each time. i once almost did when i walked her to her car and we drove around for a few but i never did and i got caught up in other relationships. but whenever i see her it's always the same feeling, just flirt and stuff..awquard a bit. Today i saw her and it was the same thing. she even asked what i was doing the rest of the day. i knew what she was saying but well i have a problems. in the past 3 years, 3 of my friends dated her. so i was wondering if it's wrong to date your friends ex? These aren't like best friends, but we chill and stuff occasionally.


peace
sean

 

[DannyLove]

why don't you ask your friends if its okay with them? I dated my friends ex.... Michelle... ahhh that name....... (got goose bumps) they were just kissing around back in HS, but i got with her about 2 years after. I asked my friend if it was cool with him, (he was with his gf at the time) and he didnt mind. He didnt really care. But i know he did a bit, but as long as they give you that "ok"

i still miss that girl... she had Jlove eyes oh well

my suggestion. ask your friends. after that, play it

danny~!

 

[pillage2001]

If they are your friend's ex, then it's not a wrong thing to date her. She's through with them so you're okay to date her.

 

[drewski]

i wouldn't necessarily say it's wrong. if you hang with them it could be awkward. just ask them if they would be bothered.

- if they say "no", then go for it.

- if they say "yes" . . . tell them to grow up and then go for it.


oh, and find out why they are "ex-" and not still together.

 

[Bimmer318i]

Hey dude, how old are you?...I ain't very old either, so take my advice at face value..
It all depends on your morals, and what you think is alright for your friends to have done with her, so to put it, if she's done anything with them that is past your moral limit..forget it dude, you're in for torture...from your own mind..if not, hell, go for it dude...nothin wrong to date friend's ex, hell, the 2nd and the 3rd guy did...anyways, hope that helped...if someone's out to flame me...go for it ..just offerin a helpin hand..

-Abirinder

 

[AdamDuritz99]

well 2 of the guys she went a little further than dating if you know what i mean. that really doesn't bug me. she's leaving for college soon anyways, but i just kind of want to date for a while. eh...

peace
sean

 

[Bimmer318i]

Make sure it don't bother you dude, if it don't, go for it...

-Abirinder

 

[gopunk]

i'm sorry but i think you're a pretty crappy friend if you're going to let a girl get in between. you should ask and listen. it doesn't mean they're immature, they might not be over her or something. i don't know what all you horny folk are thinking, but in my book, a friend is a hell of a lot more valuable than some girl you're probably going to end up breaking up with anyways.

 

[AdamDuritz99]

hey man i don't think i'm a crappy friend. i'm seeing what people think here. i know all of them are over her, but i will ask them for sure.


peace
sean

 

[gopunk]

<< hey man i don't think i'm a crappy friend. i'm seeing what people think here. i know all of them are over her, but i will ask them for sure. >>



i said &quot;if&quot;... indicating a conditional

 

[Nitemare]

Well the keyword here is &quot;ex&quot;. I'd definitely be finding out why they split though, might be something bad or something. Also, I don't think your friends will mind especially if they have moved on and aren't still clinging on to her or something. You might still want to run it by them if they are good friends though..maybe over a game of pool or something..heh, you know what..I just had the funniest thought the other day..You remember so and so...was thinking about maybe asking her out...what do you think? That way you can mak it seem like you are getting their approval first and their will not be any hard feelings later..

 

[HowardStern]

Just go ahead and do her.

 

[flamingelephant]

Its all good, as long as there is no nasty history...
If they broke up clean and on one is psyco then go for it!

 

[AaronP]

To the theme of The Village People's YMCA:

S-L-U-T
I'm talkin about
S-L-U-T

high school girl who screws a bunch of guys and can't stay commited. Can you say welfare loving, single mother?

 

[Emulex]

just wear a rubber, you are young, enjoy yourselves, and such.

she might end up being the one

 

[kcklla]

If I have learned one thing being a male its that guys are awsome, most of the time. It isnt wrong if you date her because guys shouldnt give a darn, if it is okward to hang out with her and her ex's dont. Its not that hard working around freinds so you hang with them at different time, trust me Ive done it. Dont talk about her a lot and dont be stupid and you will be fine.