I 've known the guy since 2001. We used to work together, he left in late 2002. He lives in Detroit, I live in Chicago. Wedding is in L.A., because thats where the fiance is from. He is a good friend...but I would not say best friend. He mentioned something about the wedding, if I would think L.A. would be nice. I told him LA is a nice place, "but doesn't really matter to me, I don't go to weddings. Is you decision where you want to have it." Then he started giving me crap that is just wrong and all that stuff. I told him is not just him, I hate all weddings...and I hate to travel. I really don't care to, and avoid traveling as much as possible. So whats the big deal!!!!