Is it true that women have two different types of orgasms?

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moks78

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Originally posted by: Injury
Yes, real and fake. ;) jk
...very true. Remember "When Harry met Sally" The high light of the movie... Sally was showing Harry how easy it is to fake an orgasm while they were eating inside a restaurant. ;) :D

I think we should have another thread abt...How to tell an orgasm is the real one or totally fake?;)
 

TheLonelyPhoenix

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Originally posted by: rdgr8
I think we should have another thread abt...How to tell an orgasm is the real one or totally fake?;)

I predict that thread wouldn't be nearly as mature as this one and locked before the 10th post.
 

Rock Hydra

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Seems that this topic exploded with useful and mature posts.
From Experience, my girlfriend (who is beside me as I type this) describes a clitoral orgasm as "body tingling explosive sensation" whereas a g-spot (which I can only describe as having the same texture as the rigit upper part of your mouth) orgasm as a "sensational mind blowing experience" which seems to have more of a mental impact over a clitoral orgasm, and stimulating both seems to add to each other(I accidently caused my GF to start to hyperventilate this way. :confused: ) Limiting to just a vaginal orgasm theoory would seem to be negated as just the traditional "in-out" motion associated with sex doesn't seem to trigger orgasm, other stimulation appears to be necessary. Note: About that cervical bit before, (too lazy to quote it directly) my girlfriend enjoys it much from penile penitration, although it may cause discomfort for both the men (in my case) and women. Anwother Note: Some women have "pleasure spots" on their bodes. Example: Flicking my girlfriend's tounge with mine while kissing causes a great deal of stimulation for her.
Experiment, explore, and most essentially, communicate with each other.

Mods: If it's inappropriate, I will remove it. Please don't lock the thread.
 

myusername

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Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: myusername
So is the "men's g-spot" you folks are talking about just the prostate (which of course, women don't have), or is there something I missed while poring through all those sexual tomes in my adolescent years?
Try it on your own with some lube or with a gf but she may not be comfortable with it. Some are though.
Koing
Right, but prostate != g-spot? Considering morphology divergence between genders (e.g. clitoris/glans) wouldn't there be a secondary mass of nervous tissue in males if the female g-spot were a physical structure? Is it near, or in fact the prostate, or do people just call it the "male g-spot" because it is pleasurable?
 

bigredguy

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Originally posted by: myusername
Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: myusername
So is the "men's g-spot" you folks are talking about just the prostate (which of course, women don't have), or is there something I missed while poring through all those sexual tomes in my adolescent years?
Try it on your own with some lube or with a gf but she may not be comfortable with it. Some are though.
Koing
Right, but prostate != g-spot? Considering morphology divergence between genders (e.g. clitoris/glans) wouldn't there be a secondary mass of nervous tissue in males if the female g-spot were a physical structure? Is it near, or in fact the prostate, or do people just call it the "male g-spot" because it is pleasurable?

There is a huge number of nerve endings in the male anus, so there is some physcical structure there.
 

DrPizza

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Originally posted by: Red
Originally posted by: nourdmrolNMT1

her mood changing, g-spot takes a while. and with a slight wrong move, she can no longer be in the mood.

MIKE

Do you talk while you're working it? I talk some, but a lot of times when she gets close to finishing, she'll shush me, lol.

Doesn't want to hear your voice and ruin the fantasy. :)
 

cyberfuzz

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hmmm someone said that a female is holding orgasm back, because they think that they just have to pee. well my gf always says "you always make me have to go pee afterwards". wonder if she is holding it back or if its really pee :p.
 

JDub02

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Originally posted by: DJFuji
Originally posted by: loic2003
Jeez.

Girls do have G-spots. All of them do. 1 inch up the front wall and it's easy to find. Rear penetration is most likely to stimulate it. Of course you can use your hand to great effect for this during cunnilingus.

Girls can also orgasm from deep penetration where the entrance to the womb is stimulated repeatedly., so I guess there's 3 types or orgasm.

Some girls do ejaculate, but not all. Unfortunately to them it feels like they're about to pee before they reach this stage although it's not urine that is secreted. A lot of women 'hold back' because of this.

Everything is linked up down there so you're best going for a dual 'clitoris and g-spot' orgasm together, this means some nifty finger work whilst you're on the job. Deep penetration, varying angles of attack, fingerwork after prolonged cunnilingus is the most rewarding and most likely to display the 'shaky leg' syndrome when the girl loses count of the number of orgasms she has had.

Spend some time fooling around and talk a lot with your girl. It's not as hard as you think, nor is it some big mystery. It's easier than fixing a computer. Communication and foreplay is the key.

Also, inform her that her giving you head a couple of hours before sex will result in much, much better sex for her. True fact.

If none of the above helps, send me her number, k ;)

Everything is true except for that bit about giving you head beforehand. That doesn't worth sh!t. =)

Oh yeah, the "deep penetration" can be painful to some girls since you'd be hitting the cervix every time.


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DJFuji

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Originally posted by: cyberfuzz
hmmm someone said that a female is holding orgasm back, because they think that they just have to pee. well my gf always says "you always make me have to go pee afterwards". wonder if she is holding it back or if its really pee :p.

I believe women have to pee after sex (guys do too sometimes) because its a natural way to prevent infection by flushing out any bacteria that might have entered the urethra.
 

DJFuji

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Originally posted by: bigredguy
Originally posted by: myusername
Originally posted by: Koing
Originally posted by: myusername
So is the "men's g-spot" you folks are talking about just the prostate (which of course, women don't have), or is there something I missed while poring through all those sexual tomes in my adolescent years?
Try it on your own with some lube or with a gf but she may not be comfortable with it. Some are though.
Koing
Right, but prostate != g-spot? Considering morphology divergence between genders (e.g. clitoris/glans) wouldn't there be a secondary mass of nervous tissue in males if the female g-spot were a physical structure? Is it near, or in fact the prostate, or do people just call it the "male g-spot" because it is pleasurable?

There is a huge number of nerve endings in the male anus, so there is some physcical structure there.

The "male gspot" is partially because of the high number of nerve endings but mostly because of the stimulation to the prostate. IIRC the prostate makes and holds the fluid in semen and direct stimulation can result in more explosive contractions, which are really what orgasms are.
 

midwestfisherman

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Originally posted by: WarDemon666
Originally posted by: Lola
honestly, from what i have read and seens, and actaully "felt" yes, females *can* have two different types. A g-spot orgasm is more intense and longer lasting. It takes some time to learn how to achieve this one though. However, when a female does, its great.
Listen to "talk sex with sue" on the Oxygen Channel. she has a lot of info on the show and her website! :)

Pics?


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Alex

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Originally posted by: Red
Selfish SOB! Good luck maintaining any kind of long-term relationship with that attitude! I'm sorry, but when it comes to sex, it's better to give than receive IMO.

Agreed.

totally! :) and i honestly can say that i learned stuff from this thread i never thought i'd learn at AT! :p
 

jiwq

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speaking of prostate stimulation... has anybody watched Roadtrip?

you know what i'm talking about
 

Blazin Trav

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Originally posted by: loic2003
Jeez.

Girls do have G-spots. All of them do. 1 inch up the front wall and it's easy to find. Rear penetration is most likely to stimulate it. Of course you can use your hand to great effect for this during cunnilingus.

Girls can also orgasm from deep penetration where the entrance to the womb is stimulated repeatedly., so I guess there's 3 types or orgasm.

Some girls do ejaculate, but not all. Unfortunately to them it feels like they're about to pee before they reach this stage although it's not urine that is secreted. A lot of women 'hold back' because of this.

Everything is linked up down there so you're best going for a dual 'clitoris and g-spot' orgasm together, this means some nifty finger work whilst you're on the job. Deep penetration, varying angles of attack, fingerwork after prolonged cunnilingus is the most rewarding and most likely to display the 'shaky leg' syndrome when the girl loses count of the number of orgasms she has had.

Spend some time fooling around and talk a lot with your girl. It's not as hard as you think, nor is it some big mystery. It's easier than fixing a computer. Communication and foreplay is the key.

Also, inform her that her giving you head a couple of hours before sex will result in much, much better sex for her. True fact.

If none of the above helps, send me her number, k ;)


This is a very informative post... nice job.
 

classy

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Originally posted by: JohnCU
there is no such thing as a g-spot.

<- has the book, "Sex for Dummies":thumbsup:

Yea it is too. You better buy a new book and get some, one or the other, lol :). Every single woman on the planet has a spot.