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Is it really worth it?

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sillymofo

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All macho talk aside, is it really worth it to invite some one else into your relationship (a.k.a 3 some) if you've been with a particular person for a while? You do love this other person and vice versa, and have complete trust with each other.

EDIT: Ok... so if your SO really, really wanted to, and this would make him/her happy, would you do it in the name of love? I mean, there's got to be compromises that you both can make or exchanges right?
 
not really worth it. it might be fun for u for the night, but its gonna cause waaay too many problems later on. besides, its a fantasy. keep it as a fantasy. if you and ur SO fulfill all of each other fantasy, its gonna be a pretty boring relationship
 
It's not as bad as I thought it would be. Actually, it's been quite fun for both of us.
 
Most couples can't stand the emotional shock that comes along with it. Some can. Don't be surprised if there's devastation in the wake of your little tryst.
 
Originally posted by: Aharami
Originally posted by: CPA
It's not as bad as I thought it would be. Actually, it's been quite fun for both of us.
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PICS or ban!!! 😛
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Maybe after NYE. We have reservations at a swinger's club, then we're heading to a hotel party with some of our "friends". Should be very interesting evening.
 
Originally posted by: CPA
It's not as bad as I thought it would be. Actually, it's been quite fun for both of us.
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So who's having the most fun - you or cr4zymofo?
😉
 
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
All macho talk aside, is it really worth it to invite some one else into your relationship (a.k.a 3 some) if you've been with a particular person for a while? You do love this other person and vice versa, and have complete trust with each other.

EDIT: Ok... so if your SO really, really wanted to, and this would make him/her happy, would you do it in the name of love? I mean, there's got to be compromises that you both can make or exchanges right?
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Are you talking about a gay or straight relationship?

If you want to TEST any relationship to the breaking point, bringing another person into it sexually will do it.

If you are BORED, it might be just the thing to spice it up.

If it is one of the partners' fantasys, it had better be perfectly clear and acceptable to the other one - communication is essential.

Above all else, ask yourself (if you are the one wanting to experiment) - "WHY?". IMO, you have a 20% chance of "success" and a 70% chance of a big mess. 😉






 
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: Avatar26
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Sausage or taco?
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Does it matter?😕
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I would hope so
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The point was that if the two of them really care about each other, they shouldn't need someone else in their bed to keep them satisfied...of course, that's my own prudish opinion...
 
Originally posted by: Avatar26
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: Avatar26
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Sausage or taco?
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Does it matter?😕
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I would hope so
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The point was that if the two of them really care about each other, they shouldn't need someone else in their bed to keep them satisfied...of course, that's my own prudish opinion...
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Depends entirely on the two people involved. Some relationships can last and maybe improve, others will crash and burn
 
Originally posted by: Aharami
not really worth it. it might be fun for u for the night, but its gonna cause waaay too many problems later on. besides, its a fantasy. keep it as a fantasy. if you and ur SO fulfill all of each other fantasy, its gonna be a pretty boring relationship
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Agreed. Unless both couples are extremely secure in their relationship and outside influences absolutely will not interfere, keep things in the bedroom between yourselves without inviting a third party.
 
Originally posted by: apoppin
Originally posted by: cr4zymofo
All macho talk aside, is it really worth it to invite some one else into your relationship (a.k.a 3 some) if you've been with a particular person for a while? You do love this other person and vice versa, and have complete trust with each other.

EDIT: Ok... so if your SO really, really wanted to, and this would make him/her happy, would you do it in the name of love? I mean, there's got to be compromises that you both can make or exchanges right?
Click to expand...

Are you talking about a gay or straight relationship?

If you want to TEST any relationship to the breaking point, bringing another person into it sexually will do it.

If you are BORED, it might be just the thing to spice it up.

If it is one of the partners' fantasys, it had better be perfectly clear and acceptable to the other one - communication is essential.

Above all else, ask yourself (if you are the one wanting to experiment) - "WHY?". IMO, you have a 20% chance of "success" and a 70% chance of a big mess. 😉
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communication is definitely essential. We talked about it for years before actually taking the step. My wife had some fantasies that I just couldn't deliver on, if you know what I mean. Once we were both comfortable with the boundaries and the knowledge that any time either one of us could say "No", then we approached it. We found there are a lot, and I mean a lot of couples (married and not) that are into this lifestyle. So far it's been fun and we have no regrets. That could change, and if it does, then we stop.
 
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