Is it possible to be non-biased to a co-worker you find attractive?

[polarmystery]

Say you work with two people and you think person a is fantastic looking and person b is not but they have the same job function. Both of them ask you to do something. Do you do both equally or do you do both just as each of them asked, but for the attractive individual you add a little flair (if even a tiny bit) to get some extra attention?

Reason why is because I just noticed that I do this...and it's bad I think

 

[Deviant Grasshopper]

Everyone seems to do it. Personally, I make a point to ignore the attractive women in my office. Ironically, girls seem to be into that.

 

[Cawchy87]

It's probably bad for business, but I enjoy flirting way too much. Makes the work day a lot more fun.

 

[rudeguy]

TTIWWP

 

[Saga]

Originally posted by: Deviant Grasshopper
Everyone seems to do it. Personally, I make a point to ignore the attractive women in my office. Ironically, girls seem to be into that.

Funny, I've discovered the exact same thing. I'm relatively confident that it's due to the fact that they are typically used to getting attention for being attractive, so they react confused as hell when faced with apathy. I've found that it causes them to come and bother me much more often in an attempt to gain MY attention, probably because they're trying to figure out why their usual charm isn't working, or because they just think I'm gay for not staring at their breasts while they talk.

 

[KentState]

Originally posted by: Deviant Grasshopper
Everyone seems to do it. Personally, I make a point to ignore the attractive women in my office. Ironically, girls seem to be into that.

I subscribe to that method of thinking also. A woman's insecurity is the strongest weapon we have on our end.

 

[LinuxIdiot]

Originally posted by: KentState

Originally posted by: Deviant Grasshopper
Everyone seems to do it. Personally, I make a point to ignore the attractive women in my office. Ironically, girls seem to be into that.

I subscribe to that method of thinking also. A woman's insecurity is the strongest weapon we have on our end.

I gotta remember that...I always seem to forget that when talking to attractive women