Is it possible to be a straight male and find men attractive?

[daveymark]

Some would call this "being secure in your sexuality"

Others might call it "being ghey"

Women do this all the time, they say a girl looks beautiful, but they wouldn't sleep with her. Is it possible to enjoy looking at men but enjoy sleeping with women? Or should I just come out of the closet and be done with it?

 

[T3C]

no

 

[jaysgirl]

I think there is a distinction between recognizing that someone is attractive and being attracted to them. I recognize that women are attractive but am not attracted to them. Which way do you look at men?

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: jaysgirl
I think there is a distinction between recognizing that someone is attractive and being attracted to them. I recognize that women are attractive but am not attracted to them. Which way do you look at men?

QFT.

 

[Waylay00]

Here's the deal. You can still be straight and be able to tell if a guy would be attractive to women. But you wouldn't be thinking it as if he would be attractive to you. Like I'll see a guy and be like, yeah he looks like he could get all of the chicks. But it's not that I feel attracted to him.

 

[ajpa123]

I'm not ashamed to say that i wish i had the charm of Sean Connery etc. I recognize the traits i wished i had.

 

[Zysoclaplem]

Yes, you can realise a guy is good looking and not be gay. But, if said men arouse you, and you find them sexually attractive, you are probably bi/gay.

 

[tm37]

If you can see which guys chicks want to bang that's OK

If you see guys you want to bang that's gay...... not that there is anything wrong with that

 

[Whitecloak]

homofag.

 

[kogase]

If you have to ask this question, you're gay.

 

[daveymark]

For instance, I'll see a guy and think, that guy has great cheekbones, nice pecs, etc. I don't think about pursuing a relationship, or what it would be like to caress his rugged, toned exterior with my pale, dainty fingers. Or what it would be like to rub suntan lotion on his glistening back while listening to showtunes

 

[tm37]

Originally posted by: daveymark
For instance, I'll see a guy and think, that guy has great cheekbones, nice pecs, etc. I don't think about pursuing a relationship, or what it would be like to caress his rugged, toned exterior with my pale, dainty fingers. Or what it would be like to rub suntan lotion on his glistening back while listening to showtunes

The fact that you thought of that might be a woaring sign.

 

[Lifted]

Yes. I am hetero and I find myself very attractive.

 

[sixone]

Originally posted by: tm37

Originally posted by: daveymark
For instance, I'll see a guy and think, that guy has great cheekbones, nice pecs, etc. I don't think about pursuing a relationship, or what it would be like to caress his rugged, toned exterior with my pale, dainty fingers. Or what it would be like to rub suntan lotion on his glistening back while listening to showtunes

The fact that you thought of that might be a woaring sign.

A whoring sign?

 

[KokomoGSTmp]

Originally posted by: Waylay00
Here's the deal. You can still be straight and be able to tell if a guy would be attractive to women. But you wouldn't be thinking it as if he would be attractive to you. Like I'll see a guy and be like, yeah he looks like he could get all of the chicks. But it's not that I feel attracted to him.

I think you can see another guy and think that girls will think he's hot and be envious... that's what girls REALLY mean when they say another girl is beautiful.

They're JEALOUS!!

 

[ironcrotch]

Originally posted by: daveymark
For instance, I'll see a guy and think, that guy has great cheekbones, nice pecs, etc. I don't think about pursuing a relationship, or what it would be like to caress his rugged, toned exterior with my pale, dainty fingers. Or what it would be like to rub suntan lotion on his glistening back while listening to showtunes

buahahhaha

 

[tm37]

Originally posted by: Lifted
Yes. I am hetero and I find myself very attractive.

And how often do you do yourself?

 

[Lifted]

Originally posted by: tm37

Originally posted by: Lifted
Yes. I am hetero and I find myself very attractive.

And how often do you do yourself?

Usually once a day.

 

[Triumph]

Originally posted by: jaysgirl
I think there is a distinction between recognizing that someone is attractive and being attracted to them.

 

[classy]

I judge how men look all the time. Sean Connery is a good-looking older dude. Brad Pitt is a good looking fellow as well. I am certainly not gay.

 

[anxi80]

Topic Title: Is it possible to be a straight male and find men attractive?

this question should be posed to the op in this thread

oh hell, why not?

 

[Ryan]

Originally posted by: anxi80

Topic Title: Is it possible to be a straight male and find men attractive?

this question should be posed to the op in this thread

oh hell, why not?

ROTFLMAO - Exactly what I was going to reply!

"Yes, there is not detriment to your sexuality, as long as you don't feel enamored by that person" - lol

 

[iamme]

Originally posted by: Ryan

Originally posted by: jaysgirl
I think there is a distinction between recognizing that someone is attractive and being attracted to them. I recognize that women are attractive but am not attracted to them. Which way do you look at men?

QFT.

that sums it up.

 

[thirdlegstump]

What would Vladimir say?

 

[mdchesne]

yea, just look at carson daily commenting on brad pitt's butt.....ooooo... nope, guess not