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Is it okay to date best friend's ex girl?

ace31216

Golden Member
Here is the situation, my best friend that I will call Jerry and his girl (who I will call Linda) broke up for almost a year now. I have been friends with both of them for a few years. After their relationship break up, Linda wanted to hang out just to get her mind off the whole thing. So we started going out.

Soon I started to develop feelings for Linda and looked at her a little differently.
I think she feels the same way but both of us our hesitant to do anything about it. I don't want to start something with Linda because I am afraid how my friend Jerry will take it. At the same time, I think Linda still has some feelings for Jerry even though they been seperated for 11 months now.

Any advise?
 
Stay the futch away from her...actually, since I don't know you

Just stay away from me and we should be cool.
 
your fake names suck. why bother to use names?

and for your situation..... see if it's ok w/ your friend first and if it is go for it.
 
Sure.

If you want your friend to be a EX friend.
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Originally posted by: Excelsior
Originally posted by: Brutuskend
Sure.

If you want your friend to be a EX friend.
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Speaking from personal experience, this is the solution.

By talking to him, you are already alientating him. He may 'say' its OK out of the desire to avoid an uncomfortable conversation, but there's a good chance that it isn't. And you will induce feelings of betrayal by doing such an action.
 
i had the same situation. Of course it wasnt my best friend it was only some kid i talked to. I went out with his gf a month after she broke up with me. he now hates me with a passion but i dont mind because hes an ass to everyone he meets and he just uses people
 
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