How many people actually get tested above 16 KHz? At least around here it was my understanding was that the audiologists don't even bother testing anywhere near that high, because for most everyday situations, it's essentially irrelevant.
I have done frequency sweeps in the low end measured with a SPL meter, and I can tell you that below about 70 Hz even better quality bookshelf speakers often start to quickly lose output volume in some rooms. The difference with better brands vs. crappy brands is that the better brands admit that. Even my Paradigm Studio 60 towers (in my room) severely drop in volume below about 45 Hz. That's why I own a subwoofer. By the way 85 dB of low frequency tones kills my ears. Ouch.
Also, I do know that some crappy speakers often don't do much after around 14 KHz. Same with cheapo headphones/earphones. Even if they're top of the line speakers with -2 dB at 20 KHz, an artificial tone at 16 KHz is not going to sound loud vs. 3 KHz because the way your ear works.
As for that TV tone, I heard it much more often when I was younger than I do now. I dunno if it's because my hearing is getting worse or if it's because my TVs are getting better. Probably a bit of both, since I can still hear it easily with some really crappy TVs, and I have had my hearing measured and the sensitivity of my right ear is in the normal range but at the low end of normal. My left ear is significantly better.
Interestingly, I can also here that tone with my car, although it seems to be a much lower frequency. My
car is a gas-electric hybrid, and when the electric motor is engaged I sometimes get a high-pitched whine. Most people don't initially notice it, until I point it out in a quiet area.