is it me or what?

[skim milk]

I just don't understand... I used to be inconfident with myself.... in high school
and to make up for that..and try to "fix it"... now in college, I started acting a little cocky this year so the inconfidence doesn't show. I can't explain it... but this attitude got me like a outcast with not many friends to hang out with.....
It just irritates the HELL out of me when people just don't get a chance to see the real me. Only one real friend that i have and my family know who I REALLY am... rest just make opinions based on couple times of meeting me.

All I ask for is someone I can RELATE to.... why can't I find anyone like that?

 

[acemcmac]

You'll find a lot of people to relate to if you start binge drinking like everyone else your age.

 

[agnitrate]

So why don't you just act like yourself and stop giving a crap what other people think. You obviously started acting cocky to compensate for something (pun intended). But now you're PMSing because they can't see the real you? Wow.

-silver

 

[DannyBoy]

ffs

 

[DannyBoy]

ffs

 

[DannyBoy]

Originally posted by: acemcmac
You'll find a lot of people to relate to if you start binge drinking like everyone else your age.

Werd' 😎

 

[skim milk]

Originally posted by: agnitrate
So why don't you just act like yourself and stop giving a crap what other people think. You obviously started acting cocky to compensate for something (pun intended). But now you're PMSing because they can't see the real you? Wow.

-silver

it's not actually cocky... just more confident. since I'm understanding myself more.... I guess that's part of growing up.
fck it, i dunno. I guess I'll see better days sooner or later.

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: agnitrate
So why don't you just act like yourself and stop giving a crap what other people think. You obviously started acting cocky to compensate for something (pun intended). But now you're PMSing because they can't see the real you? Wow.

-silver

You can meet people by joining a club for something you always wanted to do like, sailing, flying, fencing, etc. Calm down and behave like you are comfortable and have nothing to prove to anyone. You will make friends and broaden your horizons.

 

[gopunk]

i dunno whenever i see a cocky person i usually just figure they're insecure so i avoid them

 

So you are posting here to find out why you are so confident?

Sounds like underlying problems....

I like the binge drinking suggestion.....🙂