Is it cheating if it's phone sex?

puffff

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you cant win with phone sex. your girlfriend will tell you that you cheated on her, and your guy friends will say you didn't score anyways.
 

purbeast0

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if you have phone sex and its not with an SO, you are probably so low you don't have an SO anyways so i find this question irrevelant.
 

rickn

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not anymore than it is to fantasize about someone else, and it's healthy to fantasize about others. Many experts believe it helps relationships.
 

Zanix

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Originally posted by: Modeps
stop posting.



but it's NOLOVE, and he's been calling those 900 lines...

I don't think lefty is going to mind that you did it with righty.
 

meltdown75

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probably a matter of opinion. i say any time you are actually acting on any sort of temptations (ie. picking up the phone, dialing, breathing heavy and finally f/\pping yourself into oblivion) is cheating. u can think all ya want, but when you pick up that kleenex box.. er phone, yes i believe you cross a line. same goes for teh cybersex0rz IMHO.
 

PingSpike

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It doesn't matter. Phone sex is a waste of fvcking time, so it shouldn't concern you whether the practice is cheating or not.
 

tm37

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Originally posted by: PingSpike
It doesn't matter. Phone sex is a waste of fvcking time, so it shouldn't concern you whether the practice is cheating or not.

actually it's a waste of 3.99 a minute :D
 

iversonyin

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wow, considerable aamount of people voted yes.....

but i said no. oral is more like the borderline

and if phone sex is cheatin and goin to strip club is like definitely cheatin
 

meltdown75

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Originally posted by: iversonyin
wow, considerable aamount of people voted yes.....

but i said no. oral is more like the borderline

and if phone sex is cheatin and goin to strip club is like definitely cheatin

RUFK?! you'll make a great spouse one day! So cheating is... when your wife finds out you have a whole other family on the go or what? heheh!
 

Spooner

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that's ridiculous... phone sex is a masturbation tool, not an actual experience being had with another person.

If phone sex is cheating, is fapping to porn cheating as well? In that case, is all masturbation cheating?
 

rickn

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Originally posted by: Spooner
that's ridiculous... phone sex is a masturbation tool, not an actual experience being had with another person.

If phone sex is cheating, is fapping to porn cheating as well? In that case, is all masturbation cheating?

looking at the poll, a lot of people got dumped over the phone, lol
 

PingSpike

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Originally posted by: iversonyin
wow, considerable aamount of people voted yes.....

but i said no. oral is more like the borderline

and if phone sex is cheatin and goin to strip club is like definitely cheatin


oral is the borderline? So you walk in on your wife giving some guy a BJ and you just go "That better not go any further there!" crack a beer and sit down next to them?
 

Zanix

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Originally posted by: Spooner
that's ridiculous... phone sex is a masturbation tool, not an actual experience being had with another person.

If phone sex is cheating, is fapping to porn cheating as well? In that case, is all masturbation cheating?



There's anonomity with pr0n, Jenna doesn't know we're all banging her. With the phone sexs, there's interaction! Grey area though...
 

meltdown75

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Originally posted by: PingSpike
Originally posted by: iversonyin
wow, considerable aamount of people voted yes.....

but i said no. oral is more like the borderline

and if phone sex is cheatin and goin to strip club is like definitely cheatin


oral is the borderline? So you walk in on your wife giving some guy a BJ and you just go "That better not go any further there!" crack a beer and sit down next to them?

:laugh: LOL!!!! :beer:
 

jjones

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Is it cheating sexually? No.
Is it cheating emotionally? Yes.

Is it cheating on your marriage or your exclusive relationship? Yes.
 

rickn

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Originally posted by: jjones
Is it cheating sexually? No.
Is it cheating emotionally? Yes.

Is it cheating on your marriage or your exclusive relationship? Yes.

and if she's doing the nasty over the phone with some unknown person, and the sex life is BETTA than ever, i'd encourage her to keep doing whatever she's been doing.