Is it acceptable to share a bed with a friend of the opposite sex?

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  1. dderidex

    dderidex Platinum Member

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    Important question #2: What is she wearing?

    A) Nothing = Yes
    B) Teddy = Yes
    C) Hell, anything skintight and sheer = Yes
    D) Pajamas = No
     
  2. Siva

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    its fine

    just try not to pop one
     
  3. judasmachine

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    This past week my friend (Miranda) and I both past out in the same bed. We even cuddled as it was cold in her apartment. Wild party, since it was her birthday. Nothing happened and we were still good friends in the morning. I see no problem with this.
     
  4. bapace

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    Until she hogs the covers, then it's instant death.

    -bapace
     
  5. oogabooga

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    words to live by? :p hahaha.
     
  6. Confused

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    Yes, it is IMO.

    I've slept in a bed 3 times with my (now) GF and her best friend. Unfortunately nothing happened ;)

    However, you can definitely sleep in the same bed if you have an ounce of self-control.
     
  7. bapace

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    If she is a close enough friend that she doesn't take offense to the comment "AIIIIIIIEEEEEEEEEEEE your feet are like ice you stupid b!tch", then sure, why the hell not.

    -bapace

    :laugh:
     
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    I've done it before. I personally see no problems with it.
     
  9. The Stigenator

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    my ex might disagree, but i say yes.. cause i have done it (years ago).

    Though sometimes i wish had actually gone after that girl.. even though i know it probably would have never amounted to anything.
     
  10. SithSolo1

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    I've done it. It's all a matter of trust.
     
  11. Goosemaster

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    it was fine...problem is that then they start getting greedy and take all of your space....
     
  12. toant103

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    yes but they all say that
     
  13. habib89

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    yes.. it's fine.. i've done it and it's not a big deal.. i've even cuddled, and nothing happens.. pop a woody and she might actually do something to help your situation..
     
  14. Kadarin

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    As long as you're not in a relationship, or in a relationship where there's a clear understanding that it is ok. Otherwise, I follow the principle that if it's ok for you, it's ok for her, and vice versa. Double standards suck.
     
  15. dderidex

    dderidex Platinum Member

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    :confused:

    And not expect a serious relationship out of it or a need to "talk" afterwards?

    FVCK!

    I obviously hang around the wrong females - where do you FIND women like that? How's that work!? Just a handjob between friends?!?!

    Goddamn, I'm totally hanging around the wrong crowd.
     
  16. cheapgoose

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    i see nothing wrong w/ 2 friends shearing a bed. as long as neithr are envolved in relationships.
     
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    What about just sharing a bed when she is in town? I have had women sleep in my bed with me that I do not believe wanted any action from me. Am I mistaken?
     
  19. dethman

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    anyone i've ended up sleeping in a bed with i've ended up sleeping with.
     
  20. neonerd

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    i haven't slept in bed with anyone...only in a tent, where there were about 4 girls, me, and 2 other guys...but i suppose it's fine if you don't do anything...

    oh, and where's the POLL?!? :D
     
  21. purbeast0

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    you must play on the other team.

    btw, im j/k
     
  22. FrustratedUser

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    Winnar!
     
  23. Tiamat

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    yes under normal circumstances. If one of you is unstable, then no.
     
  24. DeeKnow

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    not true... i've done that once. I wanted to have an affair, she just wanted to remain friends. I was upset... she wanted to comfort me, and offered to sleep together as long as we just slept together.... so we hugged and chatted for a few hours and dozed off... it makes a very nice memory actually....